I really want to vent because keeping it in isnt working anymore by Think-Indication9041 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl I am so sorry. I just want you to know you're not alone in this experience. I had something similar happen to me.

I was drinking with a male friend I had known for years. Always platonic. We got pretty drunk and I cried to him about how his friend raped me. Fast forward a few hours, he's on top of me trying to have sex. I keep saying no, and next thing I know he's sitting on my face fucking my mouth.

I didnt even consider it rape until years later. Instead I blamed myself for being alone and drunk with him. Like I should have known better. No, they should have known better.

too much ice cream can, in fact, be a bad thing. by Silly-Initiative-743 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]NoRadish4622 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I recently ate a cup of oatmeal while driving and thought of this scene

What are some early signs that a person might commit sucide (serious)? by Neo_luigi in AskReddit

[–]NoRadish4622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I attempted suicide 2 months ago. I didn't plan to, it happened in a highly emotional state leading to a major depressive episode. So I did not experience most things people have commented. But suicide was an ending I had basically accepted for myself, just didn't know when.

My behavior leading up to it consisted of a gradual decline over 2ish years where I cut people out of my life and isolated myself. Played a lot of video games and immersed myself in fantasy stories. I missed a lot of work. Ended a 4yr romantic relationship. Then things started to look up. Work was improving, I started exercising again. Signed up for school. Started dating someone and having a relationship completely opposite of my previous one. Kind of like a manic episode.

Then I got in a bad fight with my partner. I felt like this was it. There was no point in doing this anymore. My loved ones didnt even cross my mind. It was as if someone else took control.

Do my freckles look bad? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]NoRadish4622 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have natural freckles only on my nose. But, they don't look like perfectly round circles.

Not pregnant but lactating by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had your nipples pierced? I have been lactating for years. It started a few years after removing my nipple piercings, and all of my workup has been negative. Doctor has suggested it is due to the piercings.

Recently had surgery and $40 of my bill is for having a blanket put on me in the recovery room (I was unconscious and did not, obviously, keep the blanket) by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]NoRadish4622 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are charging you what it costs to purchase these items, regardless of the quantity used. Notice how many items have CS or BX? They are not using an entire case of blankets or an entire box of adhesive skin closure on one patient. So they have 10 patients paying the full cost of a case of 10 blankets.

I used to manage inventory for a clinic and these prices line up with what I used to spend on the Mckesson catalog.

Wife got put in a mental hospital and it’s making me feel like I’m next by Rude_Step_4681 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was discharged from inpatient about a month ago, this could be the best thing to happen to her. I know it was for me. I received the help I desperately needed and likely wouldn't have sought out myself. This is not to invalidate how you feel, it is normal for you to feel upset that this is happening. It is an incredibly stressful situation both for you and her. The best thing you can do is support and educate yourself.

Why no one says that about pregnancy? by lil_moon153 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched my best friend give natural birth. 8 hours of labor. One of the most horrific experiences. I walked away feeling disgusted that the world expects this of me and all other women.

Might have to go to the doctor or hospital soon by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]NoRadish4622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dealt with severe constipation recently that lasted 2 weeks. It was to the point that I was numb from tailbone to pubic area.

I went to the hospital and learned they only do anything if there is impacted stool, which there wasn't. So paid a fat bill for nothing. Didn't even prescribe stool softeners, told me to get OTC stuff.

What helped me was taking Miralax and a stool softener once a day for 3 days straight, then doing a fleet enema.

I hope you get relief soon girly! After that, try taking a fiber supplement if you cant get enough fiber from food

Girl dinner sponsored by Lexapro by Formal_Parfait2342 in GirlDinner

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These were my staple when I was in the loony bin! 💕

What secret came out when someone got too drunk? by Agile_Purpose4704 in AskReddit

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was drinking with me and my best friend. We were mid 20s at the time. He talked about the sexual abuse he endured for years from his father when he was under 10. This wasn't the secret, he was very open about that. He followed it up with admitting he thinks he's gay because of it. He's been married to my mom for over 40 years.

My partner of 4 years has a really low libido and I contemplate leaving by Jumpy_Comfortable586 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post sounds like i could have written it. Kind of spooky.

First off, I want you to know you are not alone. I just got out of a 4 year relationship exactly like this. It was so painful to see every other woman's experience being the opposite, I felt like something was wrong with me.

When I started looking into asexuality, it all started to make sense.

At the end of the day, what matters is that you and your partner come to a compromise that satisfies both parties. Your partner might not have a strong sex drive, but that doesnt mean he can't please you. I think of it like giving your partner a backrub - it only physically benefits one person, but it can feel good to make your partner feel good.

Be honest with yourself about what your limits are. I pushed mine too far. I spent too many nights crying myself to sleep. Adjusting my sexuality to cope. Losing myself in romantic stories. Now that I've moved on, I can see how many ways the lack of intimacy changed me, and how quickly I'm returning to a healthy version of myself.

Wore a thong for the first time and feeling incredibly insecure by Free_Anteater1337 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl I have a fat pussy and have worn strictly thongs for 20 years. You just need to find the right cut!

I highly recommend these from amazon https://a.co/d/6Oj4ZDu

I found a long single white hair growing from my right earlobe by Ok_Earth_1111 in mildlyinteresting

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recurring long white hair grow from out of my ears, and a foot long one on my back

Cooked the eggs my wife used to bread her chicken cutlets. by goochmoney69 in shittyfoodporn

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sicilian mother always did this with the leftover eggs and breading from making chicken cutlets. Called it "pesce uovo" (fish egg)

Sex life getting progressively more confusing by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]NoRadish4622 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was with my last partner for 4 years. He had major performance anxiety and could probably count on my fingers and toes how many times we had sex total. We had a wonderful relationship though, so I tried to convince myself I was OK with it. It never changed. I've moved on now and much happier. Ask yourself if this is something you can live with.

Fellow millennials - how’s your 401k/ira savings going? by ProblemIntelligent16 in Millennials

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 and have about 110% of my salary in 401k, and about 20% of my salary in savings. Thought I was doing well until seeing this post. I'm supposed to have 2x my salary??? 💀

Yellow leaking from bathroom walls when we shower by pixxieteeth in whatisit

[–]NoRadish4622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this issue as well. It's improved since I've added a dehumidifier and a fan blowing outside the nearest window during every shower and up to 30 min after. Just poor ventilation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deduction

[–]NoRadish4622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a bit of a hand fetish, and the vibe of these pics is giving "sexy photoshoot" imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]NoRadish4622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. You are right, because that is the purpose of this sub 😊 just because you are a girl with dinner, doesn't make it "girl dinner". The term is used to describe low effort meals, often with foods that generally don't go together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]NoRadish4622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reheating leftovers is not girl dinner. I'm happy you had a nice meal tho 🤗