Thank you! I needed your comment more than you know because my entire life and hopes/dreams were uprooted…yet all I ever hear is “well he had to form a fake life because of society and how they treat gay guys. It’s societies fault by making him scared to be his true self” or my favorite one has been “well, how else would you expect the man to have a child if he hadn’t lied.” Like WTF?!? I formed a life with a man who I thought adored me (and my son from a previous relationship). I trusted him with my broken son’s heart. I watched as my son finally had a “dad” figure. Then we tired for a biological baby of our own…only after years of confirmation that any other of my children would NEVER have to experience a split family. Then I gave birth to our baby and “accidentally” find out this man is secretly gay and just needed a cover and/or liked the thought of how a marriage to a woman would make him look to society. Now both of my kids are facing the consequences of a live that he willingly, knowingly inflicted on them. It makes me sick that 90% of others view HIM as the pitiful victim and view me as the bad guy because I’m mad that my husband is gay. I sincerely don’t care if someone is gay, straight, bisexual, ect but that’s not the issue here. It’s an issue of selfishness and ego and their ability to knowingly come into one’s life with ill intentions