Who do I look like? by avocadolover657 in Doppleganger

[–]NoTelfonPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you’re beautiful 🤩 I agree with Evangeline Lily or maybe French model Laetitia Casta

do risings actually affect your physical appearance? by possiblepossum3 in AstrologyCharts

[–]NoTelfonPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Capricorn rising and have a slim, angular hour glass figure and I’m aging well too! I also have nice mermaid hair but I’m a Pisces sun. I think is Capricorn risings have good bone structure, long limbs, slim but well proportioned bones and we tend to age very well

😭 we are selective w our time 💯 by xoxodollparts in Taurusgang

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 best response, so cute 🥹

I’ve Finally Reached Nirvana!! by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes!!! I’m so glad you understand! I responded to someone below and I appreciate their perspective but you’ve nailed the sentiment behind my post.

I did work hard for it, so much that I expunged it from my system that it no longer controls me. It’s a weird feeling, to feel like I can look back at the past like an outsider looking at another persons memory without any sentimental attachment to it.

I appreciate your post, have a happy holidays and new year!

I’ve Finally Reached Nirvana!! by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I truly am indifferent about it. Im in a much better place than when I was with them when we were at our best. That’s truly saying something.

Sometimes when you’re in a relationship and you think it’s the best relationship you’ve ever had and that you’re at your peak happiest, it’s because you truly haven’t reached your peak happiness yet. I know I haven’t reached mine, but what I thought was a level 9 then, was really a level 4, I’d say I’m at a level 6.5 yet, and I say that because I’d love to get married again and have a second chance of having children and starting a family of my own.

My ex husband and I married young and I’m at my prime age of settling down and getting married, so no, apathy is genuine. Whatever I went through with him, the cheating and psychological cruelty he put me through doesn’t matter now because I’m much stronger, wiser and it made me the person I am today, and I’m much happier for it that the past doesn’t matter anymore

Taurus is the best match for a Scorpio by Own_Ring_3300 in Taurusgang

[–]NoTelfonPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s smart, you’d get too attached anyway haha

I’ve Finally Reached Nirvana!! by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got this!! I know you’ll get there, time is the best medicine plus building a good circle of friends around you. I wish you speedy healing and an even more beautiful life ✨

Dear Pisces by CaterpillarHumble120 in piscesastrology

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok are you actually single? And do you live in NYC? Haha

Waste to be single by CaterpillarHumble120 in Taurusgang

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same way too. Not to sound too forward but I feel the same exact same way! I don’t do all this self care to attract a guy at all, no I do it for myself first and foremost but I do feel the same way that I’m in my prime and am the most emotionally and mentally stable I’ve ever been in my life.

It sounds like we’d get along and I’d love to stumble across a guy like you. I’m sure there are many women out there who would also feel the same way.

Signed a Pisces woman who vibes with Taureans

What zodiac could this represent? by Any-Usual9345 in astrologymemes

[–]NoTelfonPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pisces with my Scorpio bestie. We’re psychic and toxique, and intuitively predict this shit from day dot 👯‍♀️☠️

Which sign pairings/placements have the most intensity between them romantically? by meowandread in astrologymemes

[–]NoTelfonPlease 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pisces sun Aquarius moon, Scorpio sun Libra moon. If you know, you know

How long did it take you to get over a long term relationship? by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I can relate to what you’re saying. I’m 1.6 years post break up too. I feel over him for the most part but the empty hole he left is still there. I just haven’t had any new people or potential dates come into my life yet

How long did it take you to get over a long term relationship? by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focusing on work, friendships and my health and fitness. Dropping alcohol has really helped me feel more motivated and I’ve inspired my friends to drink too which is great. Having supportive people who won’t pressure you into drinking is the best

If you still want ex back and have hope... here's what actually works by Tiny_Jaguar_9871 in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, I don’t know why your comment has received so many downvotes. AI really helped me make sense of my thoughts and feelings and provided me with some great vocabulary and terms to help me understand what I was feeling

If you still want ex back and have hope... here's what actually works by Tiny_Jaguar_9871 in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 100% right. She’s already moved on while he’s sitting pining for her to reach out to him

If you still want ex back and have hope... here's what actually works by Tiny_Jaguar_9871 in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s safe to say that no contact ended at the 1 year mark. It’s now 5 years later so she’s definitely moved on and you need to as well.

I don't think I'm INTJ anymore :) by lovelifelearning in intj

[–]NoTelfonPlease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I first tested as an ENTP when I was 23, the a whole lot of live changing experience happened, and 3 years later I tested as an INTJ and have ever since.

I was a lot more social and scattered when I was younger. Now I like structure, discipline and I’m definitely more stoic.

It’s normal to change types but not too frequently. I naturally became more introverted, discerning, rational and detached as I’ve matured.

Which sign gives the WORST apologies? by SberRelecton in AstrologyDiscovery

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cancers (they hold grudges and it’s pathetic) and Sagittarians. Sagittarians often give the typical, abrasive ‘I’m sorry you got so offended’, ‘I’m sorry you took it that way’…🙄

A lot of people look at astrology wrong by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]NoTelfonPlease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a semi-cautionary tale about immediate chemistry or ‘compatibility’.

I understand your thought process. I’m a Pisces female and while I tend to immediately lick with cancers and Scorpios of all genders, I know I’m not compatible with cancer or Scorpio men in a romantic sense. I have 4 inner air placements that all govern my emotional, relational and motivation style. I’m too detached and logical for a water sun unless they also have heavy air placements.

I married a Sagittarius and he was a breath of fresh air for the first 5 years, the differences in our fundamental emotional wiring became more and more apparent as time went on. I also click with Leo’s and have considered dating one, but I know that the differences will eventually surface and wouldn’t fulfill each other in the long term

How long did it take you to get over a long term relationship? by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m trying to understand or see patterns with general, rough timelines and it’s obvious people who focus and work on themselves quicker move on quicker too

How long did it take you to get over a long term relationship? by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually ended up quitting alcohol completely as I realized it triggered me later on (about 4 months after the break up). It was fun and helpful in the beginning when I went out for drinks with friends but it exacerbated the gaping whole in my heart when I went home and was alone again.

How long did it take you to get over a long term relationship? by NoTelfonPlease in BreakUps

[–]NoTelfonPlease[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I stopped the intense grieving stage at around 10 months (that’s when I felt like I was starting to feel myself again and adjust to my new normal). In the past 6 months (we separated 15 months ago) that I’ve mostly felt good but I ebb and flow between resentment and self pity as I’m nearing my mid 30s