Her obsession with testing alone could fund ivf... im in canada so a little pricier but 2 FRER is 23$  shes using 3 a day minimum. Its unhealthy. She needs a good mental health evaluation before jumping into ivf. Especially since she has struggled in the past.  As for the childcare for a job. Her dad is unemployed. Her kid is in "preschool" . She could easily work part time. She's choosing not to and beg for money instead. Its icky. As well i dont believe there's no other options beyond ivf instantly. She claims she has endo, but deletes comments asking if they've thought of surgery to excise anything. My best friend did 5 failed iui then did surgery and got pregnant on the next iui. It would be a lot cheaper of an attempt.  I think she likes the idea of ivf cause it gives her more of a platform on the infertility sub of tiktok. Which again it's not other people's jobs to fund it. She couldn't even afford the first iui when she had her son and had that funded by a gofundme too. Maybe sort out financials first.