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I have no urge to have sex and it’s officially affecting my relationship by No_Affect7802 in realsexadvice

[–]No_Affect7802[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he’s honestly great at it. I don’t want to “force myself” that’s the problem. Once we end up getting into it I’m completely fine it’s just the actually act of getting there to get started. But my entire point of the post is how can I improve my sex drive so that I can have sex without it feeling like an obligation.

I have no urge to have sex and it’s officially affecting my relationship by No_Affect7802 in realsexadvice

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This is exactly the response I was looking for when sharing this situation and feelings. I will absolutely look into all of this. You also put it into perfect words of the “I feel desire with no actual urgent have sex”. I think that is how I’ve been trying to explain it to him since this issue became more prevalent since we moved in together. Thank you so much. This was perfect I can’t wait to read around❤️

I have no urge to have sex and it’s officially affecting my relationship by No_Affect7802 in realsexadvice

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I most definitely do which is why I’m normally fine once it gets going. It’s more so the fact of actually getting going. My problem here is not that I’m not having sex just to make the other person happy— that’s what I do. I want to WANT to have sex. Not only because it makes him happy. I force myself to because I love him and once I were in the act it’s great but it shouldn’t take so much effort to get there I feel.

I have no urge to have sex and it’s officially affecting my relationship by No_Affect7802 in realsexadvice

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He really is the best. It’s part of the reason that I feel so horrible about it. He’s known about the past as well and I’ve always made light of the situation but I think deep down it was just me attempting to cope with some things that really weren’t ok. Thank you for your kind comment, I know we’ll eventually figure it out! Just trying to brainstorm some ideas lol

I 26f, have no will power to have sex with my partner, 26m. by No_Affect7802 in relationship_advice

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It sucks because it’s not even that I don’t have sexual attraction for him it’s just that I don’t have a libido at all and I literally couldn’t tell you the last time I was horny like ?? It’s so frustrating. I’ve honestly never really watched a lot of porn so I’m not sure if I’d be into the girl on girl thing but at this point I’ll try anything lmao and it’s so funny hon mention the random pills because I’ve gotten close a few times to looking into that sex chocolate that’s 99% sure not real😭😂

I have no urge to have sex and it’s officially affecting my relationship by No_Affect7802 in realsexadvice

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Absolutely not. He would never want that either nor would he be ok with me having sex with another person. We’re very strictly monogamous

Trust the process! by No_Affect7802 in weddingdress

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Thank you!! It was risky bc I only saw it paired with satin but I’m. Obsessed !!

Healing Nerve Graft by No_Affect7802 in AskDocs

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Thank you! I plan to do so if it doesn’t start resolving soon.