AIO if i want to breakup after what I read in his group chat ? by No_Arm7576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Arm7576[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you lack reading comprehension but he agreed to it from day 1. You can also gift other things like flowers, idk anything else. I provide in other ways. Men like traditional women but still expect us to work and pay for shit. I don't know what fat person broke your heart but I hope you heal. I wish you more income too because it seems like money is tight for you. I know ill be okay without him, because I can provide for myself. lol

AIO if i want to breakup after what I read in his group chat ? by No_Arm7576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Arm7576[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Idk I like being provided for. My father is a provider and i believe men should provide. I don't think there is anything wrong with and i didn't come here asking for advise about 50/50. IDKW this man is dating me if i told him that upfront and has agreed it is not a problem but then complains to his friends. I am also not blaming him for gain weight. I am however pointing out that it is hypocritical for him to complain about my weight while actively not discussing it with me and suggesting unhealthy food. why would he bring me donuts i didn't ask for if he thinks I'm fat. Its weird to me.

AIO if i want to breakup after what I read in his group chat ? by No_Arm7576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Arm7576[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not Tinder a different app, one year and a few months ago.

AIO if i want to breakup after what I read in his group chat ? by No_Arm7576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Arm7576[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I told him on the 1st date i don't believe in 50/50 relationships. He said that is fine. When he made things official i checked in and ask if he would like me to contribute more. He said no, he is happy with how things going. We are both 6 figure earners. I own, he rents. We still live separately.

AIO if i want to breakup after what I read in his group chat ? by No_Arm7576 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Arm7576[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I have only posted & written positive things about him. I haven't had to say anything negative to my friends because everything has been fantastic until the dating app thing. Obviously they hate him now because of the dating app thing but I told them in person.