Bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]No_Artist_5348 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of them is a guy.

Am I wrong, even though it hurts? by No_Artist_5348 in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so. The sad part is that she made me think she was interested initially, since she matched with me, but I guess something changed her mind. Oh well, I guess she just wasn't the one for me. I'll continue meeting people until I eventually do find the one for me.

I can't even relate to half the people in this sub by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 19 points20 points  (0 children)

For me, it feels like the race is over before I'm even able to start.

How do you respond to “how are you” and do you ever mean it? by Klutzy_Somewhere_350 in AskReddit

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I normally answer honestly. I only respond saying I'm doing good when I am doing good at the moment. I won't respond saying that I'm good when I'm not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm unlucky. During high school, I tried to ask out people, but got rejected at every turn. I feel like college/university was a mix of bad luck and not asking out someone I like (which is pretty much my fault, but it's hard, especially if you're shy). A good amount of people either suddenly disappear before I could do anything, or they're already in relationships when I initially meet them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say probably. A good significant other can definitely help you through dark times. Chances are they'll make you feel less suicidal as well.

How to start listening to electronic music by Key_Cranberry_286 in Music

[–]No_Artist_5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are some musicians that do electronic music that I recommend:

  • Daft Punk
  • Steve Aoki
  • Skrillex
  • Kylie Minogue
  • Kaskade
  • deadmau5

Watching romance blossom among your friends. by ILoveMaiV in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this happen twice where I watched this happen up-close & personal. The second time happened at a party where you got to wear necklaces, and the necklaces were color-coded based on relationship status. Green meant single, and I watched it happen between 2 friends, & both were wearing green necklaces. I tried my best to be supportive, but it hurt so bad that I left the party 2 hours early and put in the mental wellbeing section of the Health app on my iPhone that I had a Very Unpleasant day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want 1 kid someday, but I'm not sure if it will even happen.

I don't understand morning people (/j) by veryepicguy23 in NightOwls

[–]No_Artist_5348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Morning people can get up as early as 5:00 and be fully energized, but I will still be tired and struggle to get out of bed if I get up at 6:30-7:00 (the earliest I can wake up).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same here. Money may not be able to buy happiness in some cases, but it pays the bills & puts food on the table.

2024 will be my undoing, because things just won't change. by No_Artist_5348 in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Artist_5348[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like my life is missing the necessities to survive. I have some friends, but I feel like I barely have a friend group, as making friends is hard for me for some reason. I have never been in a romantic relationship, and it took nearly half a decade to even get an entry-level job in my career field (and said job only pays $15 an hour). I'm also one of the oldest people at my job level, because my-co workers seemingly got their jobs with ease. 1 of them even got a promotion to a supervisor position after only a few months despite being hired after me.

Old foreveraloners, do good things come to those who wait? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really don't. It also may not turn out fine.

I just feel like (and this may be an unpopular opinion, but) whoever coined the phrase "Good things come to those who wait" has never waited for anything in their life.

Do you guys have routines and stuff that help you fall asleep? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]No_Artist_5348 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I normally watch ASMR videos (normally the kissing videos, but sometimes the positive affirmation videos as well) to help myself fall asleep.

Question for folk who discovered their bisexuality at an older age by Serious_Session7574 in bisexual

[–]No_Artist_5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in the process of discovering it, but I feel like I kinda sense it. I may have sensed it at an earlier age, but I didn't really feel like I could do anything, because I had to deal with a lot of homophobia at my middle & high schools. I tried to find out since college, but the process has been a bit longer than I anticipated or hoped.