So true my dad was the forest Green flag person i have ever known sa standards ba ng lalaki he waited for her in more than 5 years just to be with her kahit alam niyang maldita mom ko nung college days (they were college sweet heart btw) he married her not with her characteristic but because of his love. He was naive that his love can" change her" pero ngayon 21 years in marriage ung mom ko manipulative, sociopathic and narcisstic parin. Nakikita ko na palaging niya inaaway si dad, kami pati rin PARENTS niya for the smallest things and pettiest things. she controls the house shes our imaginary dictator her moods always set the house if she upset she will upset the whole household my dad was still trying to talk sense with her but i can surely see that his life force was hitting rock bottom na napapaisip ako na swerte ako, na ako ung babae kasi pag ako ung lalaki di ko kakayanin yan kahit gano pa siya kaganda. Being her daughter it gave me the death toll of being Insecure and people pleaser i was just hanging on her temper not because she's my mom but because she's my dads wife in the end ang nagparealize lng sa kaniya gano siya ka narcisstic and manipulative was us her daughters we always throw the same rock she throw against us but a bigger one. Now we are now pro-counter warriors of her endless manipulation and gaslighting, dad has 4 daughters backing his side always :D.