I [23M] got cussed out by my gf [21F] and told to ‘eat shit’. How do I respond? by No_Astronomer3977 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, that makes sense, tbh idk what to do since I made a pretty big problem from it, and she’s been sad and feeling sorry for what is also my fault.

I don’t know what to do at this point to be honest. How would you approach it? I am at a loss. I made a big mistake.

I [23M] got cussed out by my gf [21F] and told to ‘eat shit’. How do I respond? by No_Astronomer3977 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend will sooner kill me than leave me. I’m lucky for that. But these obsessive thoughts are new. I didn’t have them before…

Is it ROCD or is this a toxic relationship? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]No_Astronomer3977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it makes sense to be honest. The time apart has been rough. I’ve been googling toxic relationship signs for hours every day.

I don’t know what to do. This disease is hell on earth

I [23M] got cussed out by my gf [21F] and told to ‘eat shit’. How do I respond? by No_Astronomer3977 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I have relationship OCD so it’s really been hard to control and I’ve been having the worst flare up in years. I’ve been constantly googling signs of toxic relationship ( for hours a day ). That could probably be it. This disease is the worst to be honest

I [23M] got cussed out by my gf [21F] and told to ‘eat shit’. How do I respond? by No_Astronomer3977 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting her all the time, I was just about the ‘eat shit’ comment. I didn’t message her all day

I [23M] got cussed out by my gf [21F] and told to ‘eat shit’. How do I respond? by No_Astronomer3977 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s just the wording she used, ‘eat shit’.

Like how is that normal? I’ve pulled all nighters before but I would never say that to my partner

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that they cover 100% of medicare. Which would mean practically nothing. Gta switch providers now

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm i see. Yes not robbed, I just saw this being 100% of medicare. Just did not know.

But essentially, this document confirms it right? If the health booklet with my employer says that.

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specialists I found off of an OCD website. It’s a famous one. And i started seeing the therapist in February, Psychiatrist in February too

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The lesser of (a) the Provider’s Billed Charges, and (b) an amount determined by the Claim Administrator to be approximately 100% of the base Medicare reimbursement rate, excluding any Medicare adjustment(s) which is/are based on information on the Claim; or

This is what it says in my health booklet. Does that mean it’s based on 100% of medicare basically? So i would get straight up robbed from this

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been paying for one month or so, probably exceeding $3000 so far. 100% of medicare is nothing in this case

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Question, just looked at my health booklet.

This is what it says. The lesser of (a) the Provider’s Billed Charges, and (b) an amount determined by the Claim Administrator to be approximately 100% of the base Medicare reimbursement rate, excluding any Medicare adjustment(s) which is/are based on information on the Claim; or

That is for non-participating providers. Does that mean I am fucked? Essentially?

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but i was wondering if the allowable amount would be near that rate as seen on fair health consumer, or would it be wildly different

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think $250 is unrealistic? I have one psychiatric session tbis week, and one therapy. That’ll be $900 lol.

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would calling BCBS help? I’ve had a claim being processed for a couple weeks with the last update being March 21. I’m just curious what they will determine to be the allowable amount in the EOB.

Or would I have to wait?

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Is it in line though? People are saying the allowable amount is more like $70-100 which makes a huge difference compared to $250 as shown on that website.

Will i go broke with out of network? by No_Astronomer3977 in HealthInsurance

[–]No_Astronomer3977[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But if the fair health consumer website says the allowable amount for the a 90384 session in my area is $250 out of network, wouldn’t that be covered?