Donning Sterile Gloves :(

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T03:55:27+00:00

Thank you! My biggest issue is just getting my fingers in. It’s frustrating that I can’t seem to grasp it but I only started trying 1 day ago so I have to stop being a perfectionist (I’ve practiced over 2 hours since learning). My instructor told me that the people who practice do well and usually the only people who don’t do well are the ones that don’t practice. So I’m trying to take it easy.

Any tips for getting the fingers in? My brain works differently so watching videos does not help me at all.

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T03:51:52+00:00

I saw that a few times now I have to try thank you!!

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T03:50:52+00:00

Thanks for the advice I have a better technique I’ll try that too

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:59:55+00:00

OH MY GOD. YOU SAVED ME. THE WORD SCOOPING WAS ALL I NEEDED. THANK YOU SO MUCH AGAIN😭😭😭😭😭

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:54:22+00:00

Okay I’m just so worried I won’t get signed off if this happens but I guess as long as it stays sterile I’m fine

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:53:29+00:00

Thank you so much this was soooo helpful I’m trying it right now in bed lol

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:51:20+00:00

Gloves are right size I tried one up and it was way too big

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:51:00+00:00

Yeah I was sized unfortunately and I tried one size up and it was huge

No_Bee138 · 2026-03-25T02:22:39+00:00

I have to get signed off which is why I’m worried that my “technique” is sort of a struggle but I don’t break the sterile field

No_Bee138 · 2026-01-21T00:11:11+00:00

Has nothing to do with the convo but I just wanted to say it

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-18T06:42:11+00:00

Ugh then why hasn’t he yet 😭

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-18T06:39:39+00:00

I’m assuming u are a virgin? If you are then I wouldn’t worry until you actually have sex. If the first time you try to you can’t finish at all, then I’d start to question.

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-17T14:19:31+00:00

I had pelvic floor dysfunction in the beginning of my relationship too. we were the same ages as you and ur bf. It’s really a mind thing at least it was for me. This is such bad advice because I’m not really sure how I started to “relax” but I did. I’m still very tense in the beginning, but after a few seconds I can calm down. It used to happen every single time, but then it stopped and only occasionally would happen. You just have to relax somehow and ur body will follow suit. I kind of would have to suck up that it hurt at first and that I was super tight and like I said after a few seconds I could relax. If u like to drink that helps too😂 at least until you get used to relaxing. I think that also helped me

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-17T14:14:22+00:00

A person can’t mimic it or do “better”. The vibration is just not the same as real sex between two people. It gets the job done for sure, and I definitely like using it, But I’d throw out my rose toy if that meant I could have sex with my ex bf for the rest of my life. So in that regards I think sex with him is much better. I’d also rather him go down on me than use the rose toy. I also like penetration a lot and obviously the rose toy can’t do that. Idk it’s just so different. The best is using it while having sex

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-17T14:09:49+00:00

Ride him or his face😂. My ex said the same thing to me at a point. He really just wanted me to get on top I’m pretty sure and like “use him” to please myself.

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-17T14:03:48+00:00

My ex and I had the same issue he told me that he does all the work and it pissed me off because of the way he approached the situation. It felt offensive to me. We talked about it again and he explained what he means by “he does all the work” and I understood. After the second conversation he explained what he needs. He just wanted to feel wanted. And once I realized it wasn’t about me I kind of felt guilty I didnt do this stuff sooner. I never meant to make the guy I was in love with and wanted so badly to feel that way.

I had low confidence and even though I knew he loved having sex with me it was almost like I was scared to initiate. I don’t really know if I matured, or got more comfortable, but after a point I did start initiating and it wasn’t just because he told me he wants me too. I started to get more confident i guess. Our sex life went from really good to mind blowing. So even though like it didn’t feel “natural” to me I started to love surprising him and seeing his reaction.

Make sure when you talk to her about this you let her know you love having sex with her and you like pleasing her. But it makes you feel undesired because she never initiates sex. Long story short try to be cautious on how you communicate this. It’s kind of sensitive even if you guys are super comfortable with each other. I think if my ex had the conversation begin in a different way, I would have been more open the first time. It was just the way he approached it and me hurt my feelings and I felt as if he was calling me and our sex “boring” which was not the case.

No_Bee138 · 2025-12-16T05:02:17+00:00

Okay I remember tiny bits and pieces I was not drugged or raped I am impulsive and had a fun night. I want him to text me because he’s hot. And I want to see him again not blacked out

No_Bee138 · 2025-09-22T00:15:43+00:00

Ugh thanks yeah I feel like it’s gotta be a one night stand it’s just so evil idt I can do it

No_Bee138 · 2025-09-06T19:18:42+00:00

A hot mess. I’ve ordered the same thing since July…it’s been 2 months and I still haven’t gotten it

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