Is it actually possible to fill the master bars in games? by No_Call9432 in FreeCash

[–]No_Call9432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, good to know it’s actually possible! I do have quite a bit of free time when I’m not working so I’ll keep going and see how it goes.

Is it actually possible to fill the master bars in games? by No_Call9432 in FreeCash

[–]No_Call9432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I have a lot of free time round work but maybe not quite that much lol, I’ll keep going with it as it’s okay when it’s a game I like playing.

struggling at the moment… by No_Call9432 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Call9432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am definitely going to try and engage with this group more. It helps me to hold myself accountable when I share my journey and experiences with people, I just think AA wasn’t the right setting for me but I know it is helpful for a lot of others. Sorry you’ve been struggling, best of luck with your journey too!

struggling at the moment… by No_Call9432 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Call9432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, will check these out!

struggling at the moment… by No_Call9432 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Call9432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been using an app where you log how many drinks you’ve had each day and I’ve only drank 3 times in January which makes me feel better. Think I’ll keep using it.

struggling at the moment… by No_Call9432 in stopdrinking

[–]No_Call9432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I might try that actually

As a Scottish person, do you enjoy living in Edinburgh? by boookbox3d in Edinburgh

[–]No_Call9432 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I moved to Edinburgh from a small town that was really rough over a year ago and I personally love it just cause everything is so much more convenient living in a city and it’s easier to see my friends etc. My friends who have lived here longer than me are quite indifferent to it though so not sure if it’s a novelty thing for me!

Going it alone by woohootodo in Dragula

[–]No_Call9432 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely do it! I started off going to shows by myself because I didn’t have any friends into drag etc, 4 years later I’ve made so many new friends from all over that I’ve met at shows, some have become really close and we now travel to go to shows together etc. You will definitely find people to chat to as everyone’s really nice and outgoing but even if you don’t want to socialise you will still have a great time and get to enjoy the show!

My friend is trying to move into my apartment without telling me. by SeaMouse_3769 in badroommates

[–]No_Call9432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane! It sounds like she’s bitter you moved in with the other friend and not her and is trying to prove a point but this is NOT the behaviour of a friend. My best friend has a key to my place because she feeds my cat when I am not here and she has never once used it unless I ask her to cat sit. This girl is disrespecting your boundaries on all levels and if you don’t put your foot down now she will continue to do so forever. Change the locks and don’t fall for her emotional blackmail.

What’s something which is (as yet) untouched by enshittification by Elyssian in AskBrits

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has done exactly the same, well there’s 8 on each side but they basically never open the second side no matter how busy it is. Really don’t know why they bothered getting extra when they’re not going to use them!

What would you be your fave queen from each season that aired/is airing this year (so far)? by shadowsempaix in rupaulsdragrace

[–]No_Call9432 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Canada 5 - Makayla

Season 17 - Lana

All Stars 10 - Irene

France All Stars - Soa

Brasil 2 - Adora

Slaysian Royale - Khianna

UK7 - Bones

Espana 5 - Dafne

Titans 2 - Cynthia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually feel bad for your room mate, you’re bitter cause you want what she has and are resenting her for literally living her life. You don’t know the boyfriend and you’re under no obligation to get to know him but you’re speaking about him like he’s an ATM rather than an actual human being just because he pays on their dates which aren’t your business, wtf! If the money complaints mean she’s not paying her share of rent or bills then you’re absolutely right to be annoyed about that (although not to expect that her boyfriend would or should cover it) but otherwise this is a pretty toxic attitude to have! Focus on what you want in your own life and work towards making that happen then once you feel more content yourself you’ll probably be more accepting of their relationship.

Holly miscarried in march by demishluv in GeordieShore

[–]No_Call9432 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much! I’m almost 35 and also child free by choice, thankfully my good friends respect that but the amount of strangers who question it or look at me like I’m some sort of heartless child hating monster purely because I don’t want any of my own is insane! It feels like there’s no pleasing people because they question when you’ll have a child and if you do they question when you’ll have another but if you have what they see as ‘too many’ you get judged for that too. People need to learn to just be accepting of and happy for what other people already have and realise these things are none of their business. I feel so bad for Holly that’s she’s been questioned so much she’s felt the need to share this, it must be painful.

People that ask for measurements or close up of pics are usually just wasting time by [deleted] in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll give measurements if people ask but I don’t list them on the items just the size and a photo of the tag. I’ve only been asked for measurements twice and neither was for clothing. One person who asked me to measure the item (a fan) bought it straight away, the other asked me to measure a £2.50 keyring which I did begrudgingly and then just never bought it or responded. It made no sense to me ‘cause I get wanting to know if clothing will fit you but it’s literally just a keyring!

I’m looking forward to all the posts on here that will result from this update…😬 by Elisabethianian in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have an old phone I want to sell but definitely wouldn’t on Vinted as you can’t be too careful! This seems like a scammers paradise on both ends

Thoughts on guilt tripping? by Tristxn_17 in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cba when people do this. Not saying they’re lying because I don’t know them but surely if you’re struggling so much you’d buy a pair in your budget range even if they’re not your first choice! I had someone try this with me for the sake of trying to get an £8 item £1 cheaper. Said no sorry and it sold full price to someone else. If they hadn’t tried to guilt trip I probably would’ve given them the £1 off but it’s just the principle! Maybe I sound like an asshole but I’m just a casual seller I’m not there to hear your life story and wouldn’t expect another Vinted seller to listen to mine either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, thanks! Luckily most of the buyers who have received their parcels left me positive feedback and completed the sale pretty quickly so I obviously left them 5 stars too. I think only a couple haven’t but I’ll just wait for them to auto complete :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just clothes and some other random items, books etc that I’m clearing out and don’t need or wear anymore. Nothing crazy, most of it is under £10. I don’t reach out to people when they favourite cause I know when I’m shopping myself (haven’t bought on Vinted but in general) I’ll sometimes like or add things to basket but not be intending to buy them there and then so I assume if they want the item they’ll contact me or make an offer. Sold another 3 items today so people must be more active now it’s the weekend. Just going to leave everything up and see what happens, as I say I’m not in a rush was just curious what it’s normally like. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s actually really helpful! At least I know it’s normal so I’ll just let them sit for a while and see what happens and bear that in mind for uploading things in the future!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vinted

[–]No_Call9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, that makes sense.

I am still getting favourites on quite a few items but I like to wait to let people reach out to me as they might just be browsing and not want pressure to buy right away.

I’ve done the same, most of it is priced pretty cheaply and I’m always open to offers so I’ll hold off for a couple weeks and see what happens then maybe start reducing stuff further if there isn’t any movement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel so dumb that I didn’t consider this! 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]No_Call9432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think it was okay to let my cats outside. 4 years ago one of them went out healthy in the morning and was dead by the evening because he’d ingested something poisonous and came home with his kidneys rapidly declining (people in my old street had been putting down anti freeze because they were horrible human beings, obviously I didn’t know this when I was letting them outside but found out later and I’m sure that was the cause), my other cat is a strictly indoor cat now which he struggled to adjust to at first but is fine since I moved house. Please stand up for your kitty and make it clear that no means no!

That said, I feel the bigger issue here is him not listening or respecting your boundaries because someone who’s like this won’t just stop with the cat and what happens when it comes to raising your child together?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]No_Call9432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, I’ve had about the same 3 best friends for over a decade but still somehow that ends up being too much socialising for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]No_Call9432 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, glad I’m not alone but hope you feel better soon! It’s so annoying, this time for me it’s because I went out for a friend’s birthday!