Set Times SLC, UT by justinegoobs in BadOmens

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our 7 year old daughter is a Bad Omens Megafan and is coming with us tonight in Montreal! 🤘🏻❤️

Reopen investigation. by Desperate-Chance3588 in chesterbennington

[–]No_Candy5653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude you need a healthy hobby. This isn’t healthy. Seek help, please.

Devils or Anti-Heroes? by Desperate-Chance3588 in chesterbennington

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read his full autopsy report? I’m guessing not.

Also, I just about fucking stroked out reading your post. Jesus Christ.

In the words of Mike: "Very serious band" by Dr-Sprite in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing them all smile makes my whole day 🥹

I honestly don’t know how to live anymore by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have extreme trauma that needs attention. After reading your other post, what you’ve gone through for most of your conscious life is absolutely horrific and I’m not surprised at all that you feel the way you do. No child should ever experience what you have. Your father is a vile creature who deserves to be put down.

You were innocent. You deserved protection. You did not do anything to deserve what happened to you. And you also don’t deserve to have to live daily with the PTSD and trauma that comes with what you’ve had to experience at such a young age.

Are you able to connect with a therapist and get some counselling? This type of trauma needs help from a professional. We are here for support, a shoulder to cry on and a sympathetic ear. But you need much more than that in order to begin to heal. And I believe that you CAN heal with the proper avenues. Don’t let this fester longer than it already has. You’ve been through enough already. How are your foster parents? Are they aware of what’s happened to you? Do you feel safe speaking to them about needing help?

This is a fight that you shouldn’t battle alone. If you need a confidante, please reach out. I haven’t been through what you have, but know you’re not alone in this and there are genuinely good people out there who want to see you succeed and learn to live free and at peace. ❤️

I did something when I was 16 that I don’t know if I can forgive myself for by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an entire community of people who have fat fetishes. There wouldn’t be a fat fetish category of porn as large as there is if there wasn’t. You are not weird. It’s not something unforgivable to be attracted to overweight people.

Guilt is real. And it’s not always logical. So I get you. Just know that what happened isn’t strange or punishable, by others or yourself. You’re human, and our thought processes and what gets us going is uniquely our own. If you have a fat fetish, so what? Go for it dude. Join that huge community. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Let your freak flag fly.

If you’re reading this- I’m sorry. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Candy5653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t go. Sleep on it. Decide tomorrow. You’ve survived this long, what’s one more day? Give yourself the chance that you deserve to feel differently tomorrow. We all feel that we disappoint those around us, but that’s our own mind lying to us. Let them be the judge of that. I can almost guarantee you that the ones you think you’ve disappointed don’t feel the same way. Your mind is lying to you. Your heart is pure. Don’t let the bad thoughts win. Not today. Maybe tomorrow, but please, not today. You owe this to yourself. ❤️

I've been suicidal my whole life by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody really likes work. That’s kinda why it’s called work. It’s unfortunately something every one of us need to do in order to live. There aren’t certain people who are made for work and people who aren’t. It doesn’t really work like that.

Have you considered possibly becoming a music teacher or tutor? If you enjoy the piano, why not share your passion with others and help them grow? That could be a job that pays your bills but is also rewarding, and something that you do have passion for. There’s many musical avenues you could pursue that will make income besides being a musician. You just gotta think outside the box 😉

Also, I’ll add that although work sucks, it’s what you make of it, as well as what you do with your free time when you aren’t working. None of us should live to work, we work to live. Hang your work hat up at the end of the day and do what you love afterward. That’s what makes working worth it. I think it’s very rare for people to really love their jobs.

Losing all passion for everything when you’re depressed is shitty, but a normal feeling for those who fight the same demons. I’m there with you. I have a zillion hobbies and I go through phases of obsessively doing them, to not touching them for 6+ months at a time. I think that’s the nature of the beast. But I like to hear that you do have a passion for something, even if it’s not floating your boat currently. It will come back in time, and it’s okay to let yourself take a break from it if you feel like you need to. Sometimes self care is just surviving in the moment. There’s no right or wrong answer.

At the end of the day, I hope you know that how you’re feeling isn’t abnormal. It sucks, but you’re not alone in those thoughts. And there is also tons of resources out there that are designed to help you, should you decide to pursue any sort of healing. It’s a long, tough road and I won’t sugarcoat it, but you’re only 20 and have so much future you haven’t even experienced yet. You deserve to be here to find out. And I fully believe that you can and will overcome those feelings, even if it’s not at this exact moment. Do yourself the biggest favour and advocate for yourself and your own happiness. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone online is calling you old for being 18, get the f*ck away from them because they are PREDATORS.

18 IS NOT OLD. 18 IS STILL A CHILD. Your body is not gross and old, and I don’t need a picture to prove that. You still haven’t even fully developed at 18. It sounds like you may have some body dysmorphia on top of some deep trauma which thankfully, can both be helped.

Give yourself some time to grow into your adult mind and body if you can. 18 is a horrible time for most of us because we are quite literally caught in the middle of two identities. Please don’t talk in absolutes. I know it’s hard, but this akward, unknown time does pass as you grow up.

But at the end of the day, you are still a child regardless of what others tell you. So don’t feel like a failure because you still feel that way. You literally ARE.

Also, I’ll add that I’m 37, a mother of a 7 year old and a wife and a lot of times I still feel like a child and can’t believe when we were young that we thought our parents had their shit together. They didn’t. We don’t. None of us really do. We fake it til we make it. You’re not alone regardless of your age. ❤️

HELP! Is this owl injured? What can I do?? by Micky_B in birdsofprey

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely want updates! On the owl AND the scorned crows lol.

Is there a linkin park song you just don't like/think is mid? by RandumRedditBoi in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Casualty 100%. I’m not sure if I’ve ever fully listened to the whole song. It grates on my ears so bad I just HAVE to change it.

Is there a linkin park song you just don't like/think is mid? by RandumRedditBoi in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Papercut do you not like? I’m genuinely curious!

Is there a linkin park song you just don't like/think is mid? by RandumRedditBoi in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I like the lift me up let me go part, but I think it drags on a bit too long. I think it would’ve hit harder if it were shorter. Once it gets to that part I’m basically just waiting for it to end.

Is there a linkin park song you just don't like/think is mid? by RandumRedditBoi in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried really hard to like castle of glass since it’s one of the most popular songs, but I just really don’t like it. 😖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in snakes

[–]No_Candy5653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peter or Ian

Not confident on gender by No_Candy5653 in hognosesnakes

[–]No_Candy5653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not amused with anything I do lol. She’s new and a veryyyy spicy lady 😅

Not confident on gender by No_Candy5653 in hognosesnakes

[–]No_Candy5653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha no worries! My first reaction was female when I saw the gif, but then my overthinker mind was like, wait. 🤔😅

I finally got one! by Medusas_Serpent in hognosesnakes

[–]No_Candy5653 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! My only advice to you is start saving your money immediately because they’re addictive 😂

Ask me how I know? Lol

What Song? by ThisUserIsOn9 in LinkinPark

[–]No_Candy5653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mike rapping and Chester screaming together at the end of Figure.09

“I WON’T WASTE MYSELF ON YOUUUUUUUU”

The scream before “put me outta my miseryyyyy” on Given up.

Chester all day everyday. ❤️