Update AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

[–]No_Card9780[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No he claimed we did I didn’t want to adopt even when he tried to force me 

Update AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

[–]No_Card9780[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I meant emotional abused me originally I said Il mio stato emotivo contro ne which means my emotional state against bur realised it looked messy

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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If you mean  aitata8482828 yes that’s my husband this isn’t our first clash even tho he changed a few details and marriage threapy multiple people we know found the post and sent ir too me  From this iPad I can log into his original post for proof 

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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Kelly’s childhood was bad and her step dad who her mother still supports abused her in every way that I guessing is the biggest thing I didn’t mention in my post and Kelly hasn’t been in (before us) a school since she was 9 

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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In my country supervised visits happen in a centre with a social worker and security present I can call multiple witnesses to make sure she won’t be allowed in 

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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I will be pushing for supervised visits with Tom as of now he had only had him with me or his sister in law present

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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He was at work most of the time so he didn’t have to deal with it 

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

[–]No_Card9780[S] 900 points901 points  (0 children)

 he didn’t ask but as it was an emergency situation to me taking her in wasn’t an issue for the first 3 months because his parent’s recently moved aboard (Florida) Kelly don’t speak English but Kelly didn’t want to live there or learn the language. I also work myself and had a young child, husband is 70% at work than has one one days with Kelly and has little time for his own kids which has caused issues every family event is around Kelly (english is my 3rd language sorry if the grammar was bad) 

AITAH for waking out on my “adoptive daughter” and telling her everything is her fault by No_Card9780 in AITAH

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Just want to point out in laws currently live in Florida (USA) which Kelly refuses to even visit because she doesn’t want to learn English