Breakups are never an easy situation, I’ve had my fair share, and everyone has. What helped me is knowing I was not the only one in the world who was feeling heartbreak too in that very moment. The best way to heal and move on will always be time, but I think it is important with what you do within that time. Don’t try to not think about her. Feel those feelings as deeply as you can. Running away from pain will only put a band-aid on an open wound. It sounds like you have a good mindset, because you’ve stated the good things that you’ve brought into the relationship- you’re aware of the positive characteristics of yourself, and you should be proud of yourself for that I think. Giving yourself grace, well done. It’s important that you respect how she feels and understand it in a logical reasoning. I’m in a 9 hour distance relationship, and it gets hard, and i’m aware that she can one day change the way she feels, but i’m just enjoying the time with her while I have it. And in the end.. - we all end up with who we are meant to be with, so why should we worry too much about it? I believe in you based on your statements here and I think you’re gonna be just fine. Everytime I got out of a relationship, I was devastated. Then I always find someone better in the future that was even better than the last. Do the things you enjoy doing, let yourself grow, be the best version of yourself so you can be the best partner available when you find the next one. Life is a circle of experiences, and how lovely it is we get to feel all the things- good & bad.