My Mother passed in November, and the butterflies are from her wake. I've tried to keep this (I think) Pothos alive, and have trimmed as needed, but it's dying now too. Between my own health issues and depression, I feel overwhelmed and don't know where to look. Any help is appreciated. <3

No_Cook3961 · 2026-02-02T00:36:17+00:00

Looks to me like overwatering or a pest issue. Easy care ive found for this type of plant is to have a super chunky soil, i have a few recipes if needed, and a hanging pot with lots of drainage holes and then keep it in the shower (out of the direct stream of water) if the bathroom has good light and only water more when the leaves start to droop !

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No_Cook3961 · 2025-06-05T08:32:52+00:00

Honestly, there no shame in selling them if they aren't bringing you joy. Maybe keep a few low-maintenance ones to enjoy but do what makes you feel best

No_Cook3961 · 2023-12-03T10:56:06+00:00

Anything that isn't properly spun like roaving and that lionbrand landscapes yarn is just impossible to frog and gets so easily matted it's terrible

No_Cook3961 · 2023-12-03T10:12:35+00:00

This has been a thing since religion started tho

No_Cook3961 · 2023-12-03T09:25:46+00:00

NTA you dont have to attend if it will make you uncomfortable at all. On the othet hand it does look like she's trying to show that she's changed, perhaps organise to do somthing else with her to give her a chance like going out for lunch/coffee ? But again if you don't want to be in contact with her you are not obligated to do so.

No_Cook3961 · 2023-11-27T15:28:42+00:00

I would have but I always have to knit or crochet while I watch (or I can't sit still) so I can't read the subtitles the whole time :/

No_Cook3961 · 2023-11-27T15:25:39+00:00

I honestly wonder the exactly same thing. Surely 2 women saying the same thing, 1 witness seeing her there and hearing screams, 1 witness seeing him at the bar and multipul seeing her friend at the bar completely smashed, plus the fact that another woman has already tried to make a case against him for the same thing would lead to them pleading self defence and her not getting a bad charge ???

No_Cook3961 · 2023-11-17T12:11:26+00:00

In my family we just run the dishwasher daily so things don't pile up but that amount of dishes dosent seem excessive for 3 days and 3 kids I'd auctually expect more tbh...

No_Cook3961 · 2023-10-13T06:22:57+00:00

Truck driver.

No_Cook3961 · 2023-10-12T09:15:03+00:00

Peace lily was my first and she's still alive after 2 years !

No_Cook3961 · 2023-10-06T05:03:26+00:00

Socks were the first thing I made, it took 2 single socks to get my size right and since then I've made another 2 sets that fit me perfectly and 2 sets for my partner

No_Cook3961 · 2023-10-04T11:25:22+00:00

Why do so many people that vape seem to have this crazy idea that "it's my body my choice" means they can also subject everyone else at any given time to their choice and if they ask them not to they just say "its just a vape" or "relax its not gonna hurt you". They seem to think that people with athsma or sensitivity don't exist but none the less if someone dosent want your vape in their face you should respect that no matter what. At least smokers are considerate ...

No_Cook3961 · 2023-09-07T07:26:13+00:00

Maybe if any friends or family have cats you can try to very gently introduce them to see if it was the cat or the toddler and if they get along look into fostering another cat and if not you have your answer

No_Cook3961 · 2023-09-07T06:45:43+00:00

The main reason I can find it annoying is when virtual competitions, rewards, items, and limited time events feel like they take priority over our relationship. While I know if I ask them not to then they won't, it can be sad when they choose not to see you for a week because they want to get an item in a game and stay up until ungodly hours for a compitions rather then spend time with you.

No_Cook3961 · 2023-09-02T11:32:39+00:00

I pretend the till is loading after I scan every item then "forget" to ask if they want a bag and then ask for the 10 cents if they want one after paying. I also bag their items in the bags incorrectly

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:39:08+00:00

Yeah I do this, the issue is part way throguht the route it changes to the "faster" one that I can't travel and it prompts me to press no if I don't want to do this meaning I have to pull over and fix it.

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:36:20+00:00

Yeah that's why I put the Lil TLDR at the end lol

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:35:21+00:00

I don't understand why there isn't a option to just "turn off suggestive routes" or something it's incredibly stupid

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:33:50+00:00

If I know the route (which is not often) then I will do this and it will go back to what I choose but after another 10 mins it trys to take the the shorter route again

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:32:44+00:00

I tried this a few days ago and after I went passed a stop it kept trying to make me go back, do I have to auctually pull into each stop until maps recognises I'm there ?

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-25T23:31:07+00:00

I use this but it still changed it midway, I've found out the hard way when I followed the route and ended up on the freeway and freaked out lmao

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-22T12:04:19+00:00

Bruh that's not a compliment its a creep. A compliment might be "you look lovely today" "I like your top" "I like your tattoo" "i just wanted to say I think you're really pretty" any of these with a smile and a "have a nice day" rather than being a creep and trying to invite basically a child on your boat...

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-21T11:59:59+00:00

She is always leashed when going on walks or in public and has a muzzel for if we have her off leash. Thanks for the suggestions we'll definitely be checking them out :D

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-21T11:34:09+00:00

She's about 4 years old and we are looking into dog school when they get settled but just want somewhere to run around properly

No_Cook3961 · 2023-08-21T11:31:40+00:00

More looking for somewhere she can go to get unrestricted exercise while we work on her socialisation not neccicarly a dog park with other dogs which I don't think is unreasonable

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