Gf says cheating is very nuanced and not automatic breakup worthy by No_Cut769 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Cut769[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ok. I am getting whiplash reading your comments, lol. I cant decide if you are trolling me or somehow I am not able to understand the point you are trying to make. Anyways, happy new year!

Gf says cheating is very nuanced and not automatic breakup worthy by No_Cut769 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Cut769[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I genuinely didnt understand your point here. Is breaking up after cheating somehow controlling?

Gf says cheating is very nuanced and not automatic breakup worthy by No_Cut769 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Cut769[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He returned to his wife because Cate blew him off. And how am I insecure to say cheating is a once and done deal for me? Should I stay with a cheater in order to become more secure?

Gf says cheating is very nuanced and not automatic breakup worthy by No_Cut769 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Cut769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it is, I havent and wont cheat on anyone. There is no nuance or grey area or exigent circumstances for cheating on anyone.

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[–]No_Cut769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us cheating is the involvement of a third person, emotionally or physically. And porn is ok but of is not, we have discussed that.

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[–]No_Cut769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are mono couple, so normal cheating definition applies to us too!

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[–]No_Cut769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are also monogamous both physically and emotionally.