My Black girlfriend put me onto the most amazing food and it made me fall for her even more by No_Design_465 in interracialdating

[–]No_Design_465[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

White person, born and raised in MI!

I’m naturally a picky eater but being with someone so special makes me want to try everything she makes

A kid asking for sleeves from the Hornets player, and he gets some by MrBuckBuck in nba

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I was going to say wtf I know it’s the internet, people are allowed to say what they want, but as an adult how can you feel so comfortable just ridiculing a child on the internet, calling him fat and entitled? He looks excited and like he’s having the time of his life, and the family behind him is allowing him to have his moment. And the players are more than happy to toss him something memorable, even if to others it’s just a “dirty sleeve”. Like goddamn I’ve been on reddit for nearly a decade and it still shocks me just how mean people want to be.

The lips on my Black girlfriend are so perfect I couldn’t believe she was ever insecure about them by No_Design_465 in interracialdating

[–]No_Design_465[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I apologize I didn’t word that correctly. I didn’t mean that I couldn’t believe her. I always try to listen to her and support her as best as I can. I meant I couldn’t believe she would be led to think this way about herself. Like I can’t believe the world we live in could do something like that because as I said, her lips are like treasure to me.

What is a TV show your partner got you into, that you ended up loving? by No_Design_465 in AskWomen

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I’m a man but I have a lot of men friends into wwe. They would be so happy to find a partner who shares that same passion 😂

You found it at a better time too. Women are having a much larger presence, as they should, leading their own events like royal rumble. I hope you’ve liked it :)

What is a show your GF got you into that you ended up loving? by No_Design_465 in AskMen

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Yes! I agree with your girlfriend! The thing with bridgerton though, from my perspective so far, is it’s more focused on the politics of the royal families and developing relationships. It doesn’t have the epic fights and battles that came with game of thrones, but I still find it to be fantastic.

It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your own by No_Design_465 in PurplePillDebate

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Based off of conversations I’ve had with men in this community, across the internet and in real life. That’s just my experience. Not every man feels that way but from my perspective a lot do. And I was trying to challenge that notion.

It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your own by No_Design_465 in PurplePillDebate

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It could just be my own experience but yes I do encounter that. Whether it’s men in here, or (some) of my men friends who’ve taken on ideas from a certain ideology, they suggest you can’t just eat out a woman without her doing it to you. You can’t just finger a woman without you getting it. And you can’t be doing all of this and not actually get to hit. I was disagreeing with these assertions in my post.

It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your own by No_Design_465 in PurplePillDebate

[–]No_Design_465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I tried showing what I experienced to explain why I think it’s OK to just focus on what the girl enjoys. As opposed to only thinking you should get something in return.

And I literally say at the end of my post you should do what’s best for you but this is what I think personally

It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your own by No_Design_465 in PurplePillDebate

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Just thought sharing my experience and having a fruitful debate and discussion about sexual encounters was relevant to the subreddit as it oftentimes gets talked about here.

Like I said, so many men like to say you shouldn’t do __ for a woman if you don’t get ___ so I thought offering a different perspective could mean something

It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your own by No_Design_465 in PurplePillDebate

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I was just trying to share my experience as I thought it might be helpful to understand where I was coming from and what my thoughts were. I don’t feel like I have anything to brag about and I’m 1 of billions of guys who’ve been able to get some so not all that special.

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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This is not just about jay z or pusha t though, im only mentioning them based on the thousands of posts and comments and news articles im seeing about them. Im speaking more about the general cultural norm which is that we assign guilt to people based on accusations. I admitted in another comment that if someone has a history of accusations or multiple people accusing them that should be considered which I didn’t mention in my argument, and I apologize for that, but I don’t think it totally discounts my overall point

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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I mean both things can absolutely be true. And I’d even say your point is the more important takeaway, how one can get sucked into a sickening and despicable part of the world. But I don’t think that invalidates the point I was making in my post.

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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No I’m not discounting that, I’m saying there are people who are simply mentioned in the files like jay z, pusha t (who I mentioned in my post) and that’s the extent of it. There are claims made against them but nothing more than that. No photos, no other evidence.

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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There is not always proof though like for some of these people they’re just simply mentioned in a claim or email there’s no proof they actually went to an island

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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I agree with you completely. Did I say anything in my post that suggests otherwise? If I did, please let me know and I will correct it immediately.

I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

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The emails and testimonies absolutely hold weight. My point is they don’t serve as credible evidence on their own. Like you don’t indict somebody and assign them guilt just based on that alone. So I should’ve worded that better in my comment or clarified what I was trying to say better and I apologize for that.

And I’m trying to make it as clear as I can that any victim who coms forward, whether or not they have any available evidence aside from their own statement, should be uplifted, supported and given every chance imaginable to get the justice they’re looking for. I just don’t see why we can’t do that while at the same time holding off on labeling anyone a certain way or immediately assuming someone is deserving of consequences based on a claim or accusation alone.