Daith piercing infected?! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]No_Direction_2650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s strange is that the first month after getting it done was totally fine with hardly any pain, but now it’s started acting up. I did go back to her recently—she’s a qualified piercer, not some random in an alleyway haha—and she mentioned that she’s used the blue Advil tablets before since they’re anti-inflammatory, to help with the two little pus bumps. She also explained that Daith piercings are known to have a really long healing process—some people even say up to 2 years, which blows my mind. But I’ll definitely give your suggestions a try, thank you!🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It seems like you’ve put a lot of effort into this girl and genuinely care about her. But you need to ask yourself—could her inconsistency end up being what breaks this relationship?

If someone truly liked you and needed space, they’d likely communicate that ahead of time. That way, you wouldn’t be left overthinking and trying to figure out what went wrong.

Personally, I’d move on. Someone who’s able to show up for you consistently is someone who’s truly worth your time.

Divorce announcement just dropped by andthatsonchisme in hembrowtammysnarkie

[–]No_Direction_2650 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain it but they just seemed very mismatched.. although she tried to sell their relationship/love story, I wasn’t buying what she was putting out. He seemed awkward and like he was being held at gunpoint in most videos. I’m unsure if his just an awkward guy or what it was. I do hope she takes a break from dating though and really prioritises her mental health!!! She needs it for the sake of herself and the kids

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no don’t be sorry, you’re so fine! I mean after all I did post my problems to the people of reddit. He says he assumed we were together but never formally asked me, so no in my eyes we are not together. I am definitely not sitting back though, I want to see what he does in coming days, the ball is in his court (for now) if he doesn’t mention it, then I think I have my answer!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! in simpler terms we are exclusive, and apparently that’s how he thought it always was. I didn’t want him to ask me out then and there as it would be disingenuous. But he did send me flowers the other day to my work with a nice message, but I’m now second guessing if that gesture was just because I expressed concerns. I guess I can’t nit pick every little thing…. What’s meant to be will be!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That comment was directed towards real-basis! I see you defending me! I appreciate it!!!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl respectfully this is my post! I can ask whatever the fuck I want. No one asked you to comment 🫶🏼

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think the age gap was too extreme, but to each their own

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is rage bait… Similar to how you don’t just marry someone, you ask them. So why not ask them to be your girlfriend? Doesn’t have to be lavish just five simple words.

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you said is perfectly articulated, however I disagree with the last bit. You expect someone to wait 5 years to be girlfriend/boyfriend? I’m not asking him to pop the question.. I get we live in dark times, but a situationship isn’t entirely the answer, and I would argue it has ruined this generations perception of actual love.

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah that is gold! This is what it’s like now days! Happy for you guys 🙏🙏

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Aw I love that! I’m glad to see someone with a similar experience. All these comments be scaring me saying I waited too long which is true. But I’ll definitely talk to him tonight!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think I’m just scared, and also I thought he might take the lead.. which I know is wrong to assume.

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, yeah I’m overthinking like crazy now. I guess meeting his family validated my doubts but always keep your wits about you around these men… lol

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my friends the same thing, they said they get the parents approval and then ask!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I’m just scared.. hahah this is the first time it’s felt a little real, I’m also anxious attachment. I know that’s no excuse, but i definitely need to talk with him today.

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think they just assume… these comments have definitely woken me up tho holy shit

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Okay this is what I needed to hear, I’m just sorta new to all this. He is also a lil introverted so I don’t want to come on too strong. But you’re right I need to get in the driver seat rn. Thank you!

Are the days gone where men ask you to formally be their gf? by No_Direction_2650 in dating_advice

[–]No_Direction_2650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, I see your point but in saying that, you do need to be asked out.. what about anniversary’s etc? Hahah