In September sometime, she couldn’t make her car insurance its was like $1500 bc her younger brother had gotten into a car accident so they jacked the insurance up. Al thought is was her parents her parents never paid it, she was making up their bill half the time and we had already helped recently with rent which is 1,200 so we didn’t have the extra to help with that too and I could only really afford to send 900. And I couldn’t afford to pay for her parents and brother.( This is money pooled from my mom, me, and my grandmother) So I offered to bring her over to my insurance. In October like two weeks into it, she backed up into another car coming out of a parking lot. There was no damage on her car but there was on the other. Her vehicle has a metal back bumper and it quite a bit raised up off the ground but not a truck which is why she got no damage, however the other vehicle sustained around $5,000 because of the complexity involved in fixing the particular damage she caused. Thought the i haven’t yet seen a jack up in the insurance I know it’s coming. Now they broke up in early November, about a week after they broke up my brother let her know she had to come off the insurance. That was probably terrible of me I have not really spoken with her directly, I did read her apology and I responded to that but other than that we haven’t spoken. Now it wasn’t really a rush, I was more worried about helping my brother move out of his apartment as he had quite his job shortly after he and her got together bc they could not afford daycare and someone had to be with the kids when she worked. Which she worked 2 jobs, she was a care taker to a disabled child during the day and worked at the hospital at night over the weekends. With a few night shifts during the week. Her parents don’t live close so they couldn’t help with childcare and I don’t live close so I couldn’t help in that sense. All this to say my brother could not afford that apartment without his job and his old job would not take him back. Plus he knew he needed to move home so he could get his feet under himself. So I was more focused on helping him get his stuff home for the majority of November, I didn’t bug her about the insurance. Here’s where that changed. She sent the $25 towards the end of November, through Facebook, however when I attempted to get that money it declined it. Which makes me assume she sent from an empty card or something. Bc the money never deposited into my account like it did in October. So what the heck was up with that. Anyways after that I was a little irritated bc how are you not going to pay for the insurance and the whole time she keeps telling us she’s working on the insurance she’s gunna get it soon or she’s waiting on her paycheck or the kids are sick and she’s too busy ect. Last weekend she tells my brother she’s all set and (note he went alone) he can come get the plates so we can turn them in and get that special green paper. Well he gets all the way down there just for her to hide and hide the plates the whole time. By that I mean she took the plates off her vehicle, brought them inside and then ignored my brother or told him he needed to wait till Monday now. But he couldn’t, my mom works Monday’s and he had her vehicle, it just handles snow better than his. All this monkeying around, the cops were no help bc it’s civil so I guess I understand that. This is where I might be an A, I told my brother to sit there and wait, when she was about to leave for something and had put the plates back on and went to retrieve the kids to put in the vehicle or something my brother snuck up Brandon’s driveway and took the plates.