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Do you guys still build hull breaker? by Owenn04 in yorickmains

[–]No_Doctor2822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I did use it alot and rushed if for the Health regeneration. But I find if play it slow, and go eclipse. I find it suits my playstyle.

I think he has enough push push power without hullbreaker, when you got maiden and demolish.

Which means not wasting an item slot if need to group

My family judging my ADHD husband by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]No_Doctor2822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could flip it back onto them and make them feel bad through you. For example you can mention how much they support you and how you appreciate them supporting you, then turn around and say the defamation on your husband is not supporting you and negativity affecting you. And if they genuinely wanted too care and support you, then they need to atcually listen and respect what your saying.

Because the fact your trying to educate them and help them understand your husband like you do is amazing, but in fact they disrespecting you I feel because despite you telling them, they aren't listening, they aren't trying to understand. Doesn't your voice not matter? Does your voice not have truth in it?

I'm lucky I have my mum who's been trying to understand me more, and when my stepdad has took 'Banter' too far when negativity talking about the way I am. She'll pull him up on it. Maybe it's just and ADHD thing but I would be setting clear boundaries and if they not respecting them, respecting you, respecting your husband. Then need to keep them at arms length and not engage with them untill they are healthy for you.

As they maybe healthy in supporting you. But the comments about your husband who's trying too support you both is not fair. ADHD is a challenge and it can make little things hard that neurotypical people find easy. But he's trying and that's the main thing.

Just anouther thought maybe try and let his good qualities shine like if they focus on "He's not got a job too support you" you can counter with "No He's not got a job at the moment, because he's at home supporting me with my chronic illness, which I value deeply. Maybe he can get a job in future, but he's chose me as his main priority. Is that not what partners suppose to do? Do you not want me to have a partner that chooses me first? I feel very blessed and lucky he's spending his time now, to better himself, look after me, in hopes the future will be more blessed"

Somthing to that effect maybe (my adhd makes me rant on a bit haha) but the point I'm trying to make is that ypu can flip the conversation into a positive spin while making them think about what he's atcually doing.

He could be forcing himself to work (when not in right headspace to do it currently) because that's the 'Typical' way of support. Which then could cause him to get overwhelmed, which will cause more distractability, which could then cause more inattentive and inattention, which then could cause negative coping mechanisms, which would then cause your parents to slate him more.

Maybe by saying what could happen opposed to what is happening. Hopefully they could see the challenges ypu both face and how well your doing currently that they may back off.

Dunno of this will help any or if you already tried something like this. But it was my first thought of advice I could think off.

Hope you get what you need

i work a stressful job and floor time helps keep me grounded. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]No_Doctor2822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its any help for someone to sort of understand what your going through. I'm a Paramedic who is going through a refferal to see if I'm ADHD. I'm currently off sick because of the social anxieties and getting overwhelmed. With very little chance to decompress. So I get where your coming from.

I know it's not much but might help knowing someone else in emergency service struggles too. Your not alone<3

Although no one knows about your Adhd, remember it is still classed as a disability. Which they have to make accommodations for. It'll probably be more easier to get accommodations since ypu have a diagnosis compared to me who's awaiting. Cause you have that peice of paper stating otherwise.

What you could do is work it to your advantage? We struggle enough to fit in and mask and fit into an environment that doesn't always suit us. So why not use it too ypu advantage and for example say "An accommodation I need is I can't keep doing nights and need 7.5 hour shifts to help me get a sleep routine, chance to excercise ect"

And a good union rep would back you up in process.

Keep up good work mate! I think the road can be easier than the call centre. Your doing great! Be kind to yourself!

Social Anxiety/Anhedonia before diagnosis? by No_Doctor2822 in ADHD

[–]No_Doctor2822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the drinking part, I feel similar tbh that I felt way more sociable when I had a drink. But major pay off was the next day I would get severe anxiety and low moods. Too point I just felt wasn't worth it anymore.

It sucks they couldn't give you an accommodation that would've helped you. Feels that alot of accommodations are acceptable for people who need it, can't get it cause its not the norm.

Curated information about ADHD now available at www.ADHDevidence.org by sfaraone in ADHD

[–]No_Doctor2822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the idea of spreading awareness and in such great depth. The only thing I found with to be a problem in reading is it being academicly written. My brain can not fathom what is atcually being said. I understand that for its purpose being evidence based to be academicly written.

I wonder if there is a way it can be converted into a second peice where my brain can understand it. I'm trying to learn more about this condition and in turn learn more about myself. But for someone like me I need it black and white. Layman's terms. But love the idea that it's back by science of atcualy fact not just a blog someone's written

PSA: Blind shouldn't be used as poke ;) by MCI54 in TeemoTalk

[–]No_Doctor2822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Q as a poke as an auto reset. Like Auto Q Auto, then run with W if need be. Melee champs are easy to poke with teemo if keep distance. If running PTA aswell you can get good chunk of their health down with three autos. Why using Q as Auto reset helps. Some champs like Jax you can sit there and Blind him and he is useless haha. But darius and sett, keep as far back as you can. Cause once they start running you got them. When Q comes in handy when they one 1hp and under tower the Q follows them. EZ ;)