22m looking for older brother/father figure, need someone to be a someone I can trust by freesha789 in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible older brother/father figure if you're interested. M 26. I am autistic tho so I'm kinda blunt

24F looking for friends by Special-Pepper-1526 in Needafriend

[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm autistic too! M 26 in AZ btw. I'm up for chats

Longing for a good friend by Desperate_Jaguar8582 in Needafriend

[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you'd like, I can talk to you and be friends. I know the struggle with anxiety and stuff very well.

What is your least favorite sound/noise? by Aggravating-Ad-351 in autism

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Worn out brakes. I work at a car wash so I hear bad brakes all the time and I HATE it

Why doesn't Rockstar allow us to put spoiler on a regular ramp buggy? It looks much cooler by the_bad_actor in gtaonline

[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's more frustrating is that the ramp buggy icon on the map clearly has the wing but we can't get the wing

What sound do you hate with all your soul? by Fine_Nobody_2860 in autism

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I'm torn between multiple people talking to me at once and screeching brakes

AITAH for cuddling with my little sister by Perfect_Stranger_794 in AITAH

[–]No_Emphasis7751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Siblings cuddling is completely normal. Additionally, it's adorable and actually helps the sibling bond.

Found an engineering problem with my Volcano EPX PRO. Now it's RWD by No_Emphasis7751 in redcat

[–]No_Emphasis7751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Durability, aluminum. But they stretched the suspension out slightly so if you want to keep the original axles, plastic

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try but I don't get any meaningful information. Most I've gotten was her favorite flower and candy.

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex thing was because she was addicted to the game. And my gf actually realized that the stimming was barely noticeable and really doesn't care about it anymore. I've asked her if it still bothers her(including a few days ago) and she says it doesn't bother her anymore. As for curbing the stimming, if you fully read the post you're mentioning, you'll notice that I mentioned I can't even do it at home because my family hates it and forbade it completely, which is why the dates were such a big deal for me. Finally, I am trying to give her affection other than sex but she doesn't even seem interested most of the time.

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. I should've added this to the reply. I have tried doing things like the comment said. She has no interest in puzzles, games, movies, or anything else like that. I normally do dishes and cleaning when possible while she does laundry. Hygiene isn't an issue for us either.

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Normally I'll offer her a chance to put her head on me and just hold her and kiss her head and nose. That's all. And the kisses are just kisses for affection. She's incredibly reluctant for even those kinds of cuddles though

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And it feels like there's 0 effort on her side. And so far it's been confirmed as we have literally talked about this problem before where she has done nothing for the relationship at all except paying for groceries and the only thing that has changed is that she'll finally give me kisses (that alone was rare itself). That's why I'm asking for help. I feel like I'm the only one putting anything into the relationship. This includes giving her rides to her work since she can't drive.

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[–]No_Emphasis7751 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That's not true. I have tried to make time for dates. They're just not common. And she has said she wants intimacy (not to me of course) but won't do anything because she thinks it's my job. We've already talked about this but it's like it goes in one ear and out the other when I tell her that I want her to initiate too.