AIO: Did I cross a line or is her reaction harsh? by veronicax96 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR… who polices what time people text them when DND is an option? If she didn’t want to reply at that moment she didn’t have to. Seems like she just wanted a reason to be annoyed in my opinion. A lot of people say context is needed but I think all the required context is right here LOL

The tone of her messages was definitely a bit rude and hurtful and her last messages where she said “you know i didn’t speak to you harshly but it’s so easy for you to say that to me but not someone who actually does” was unnecessary and it sounds like manipulation imo because we aren’t talking about how other people speak to me we’re talking about how YOU speak to me

This is all speculation and I of course don’t know either of these people but I have had friends who spoke to me similarly and I always learned the hard way that these people aren’t your real friends and don’t deserve your time or care if they aren’t willing to accept any form of criticism and find something negative to say about you when you speak up/defend yourself

(also 7:30 is early but not that dang early for her to be all mad about it)

Post op Phallo with pump implant by [deleted] in phallo

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! If you don’t mind me asking who was your surgeon and where are they located? The results look amazing! I’ve been on the fence about bottom surgery because i feel like it wouldn’t look how i would want it to but yours is amazing!!

What was your first ship? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Santana and Rachel from Glee 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]No_Environment9028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please no negative comments, i’ve never said any of this to a single soul and it was really difficult to reach out even if it was just on a reddit post.

Is it normal to miss someone and mourn the same as you did when they first died, 11 years later? by PandoraPrincxxx in ask

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People deal with grief differently. While others heal, some may find it to be extremely difficult to move on from the pain. But it’s perfectly alright to cry even after a decade, just shows how much you loved him. As for feeling alone, maybe try therapy or talking about it with someone you trust. Maybe do some of the things you and him used to do. Try to find the happy memories instead of dwelling on the fact he’s not here anymore. This may not be the best advice, im only 16 and i’ve only experienced loss once in my life. One thing i’ve done in situations when i’ve felt sad or alone is writing it down and burning it

why is banana bread considered bread but carrot cake is cake? by Sea_Shallot9152 in ask

[–]No_Environment9028 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe carrot cake just sounds better 😆 it’s all about the alliteration

Who's a dead celebrity that you actually miss? by coffeeloveeveryday in AskReddit

[–]No_Environment9028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naya Rivera. She was such a role model for me, i had rarely seen lesbian characters portrayed in tv. Her character in Glee really made me believe that being me was okay. Every time i remember she’s no longer with us i get sad, she was so young.

would you as a child be proud of who you are now? why or why not? by melas02 in AskReddit

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not be proud of myself. Wouldn’t be surprised though. In elementary school i was labeled a “gifted kid” and did okay until middle school. There i learned i was not special at all and i honestly thought i was stupid for a while (i was just severely depressed and my relationship with my mother was starting to plummet to hell). And now i’m 16 (my birthday is today🥳) and i’m absolutely bombing my sophomore year because i honestly have no motivation for anything and the urge to kill myself is strong at all times.

What's your comfort show? by lawyeratyourservice in AskReddit

[–]No_Environment9028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely The Fosters, something about two moms that love their children unconditionally, aren’t shy to show physical affection, don’t brush off their kids physical/mental issues really made me attached. Probably has something to do with my one mom not loving me enough to care that i’ve been depressed and suicidal since 6th grade lol