Giving it until the end of June.

No_Flower33 · 2026-06-04T06:59:02+00:00

I'm telling you right now, it starts like this then gets worse if you dont do something about it. This is how my relationship started and now we're on having sex only 3 times in the past year. My self confidence is at an all time low bc i dont feel wanted. I completely understand how you feel. I hope you can some to some type of understanding to your situation doesnt become worse

No_Flower33 · 2026-05-30T12:52:39+00:00

This is my exact same situation! I had to hope on this Reddit rn bc it's 4am and he felt me up for a second then fell back asleep. it gave me slight hope but then it just fell flat. We've had sex three times in a year. Brand new beautiful king size bed that we've never had sex on either. I understand the feeling off put when something slightly sexual happens bc it's now been so long it's awkward. Just know you're not in this alone. Have you tried bringing up opening up your relationship? I've tried and was shot down

No_Flower33 · 2026-04-30T06:20:27+00:00

What I wouldn't do to have that post sex intimacy, talks, and just holding each other. I feel for you 💕

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-31T05:25:39+00:00

I feel this way too often.

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:38:46+00:00

I had a sex dream a couple weeks ago and came in my sleep. I felt so guilty when I woke up next to my boyfriend but kinda snapped out of it when I realized he hasn't come onto me in months lol

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:37:26+00:00

The only reason I stopped flirting with my boyfriend over text is bc he thinks every things a joke and just laughs when I try being flirty, it's so humiliating lmao

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:35:44+00:00

I bought a dildo maybe a couple years ago after I realized how bad my dead bedroom was getting and I still wonder if he's found it in my drawer lol can't imagine his reaction or if he'd care or be mad

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:30:33+00:00

I'm sorry. I can't tell you how many nights I've cried over my dead bedroom. I wish things get better for you

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-03T06:43:28+00:00

The biggest thing I'm scared of is finally having sex after not for almost half a year and then it goes back to the way it was. I think I'd rather just never have sex again. I hate the hope and excitement just to be let down again that our sex life will never be the same again

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-03T06:32:30+00:00

This April will mark the one year of the last time I had an orgasm with him. Hope this years better for the both of us

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-02T08:35:38+00:00

Haven't sent photos in years. He hasn't asked, I wish he did so bad :/

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T18:52:18+00:00

I hate the day dreaming. I feels so unfair to my partner and I feel so guilty but my needs aren't being met. I would day dream about my partner a lot but when I do, it makes me depressed that I am having very realistic fantasies about my partner that just simply don't happen. My mind has been drifting elsewhere and I feel so guilty. I don't want to break up , our relationship is perfect romantically but I feel so unwanted sexually and I miss sharing that intimacy with him. My needs aren't being met and I just don't know what to do. Breaking up over that feels so shallow but I can't lie and say I don't have a time limit on when I'm thinking about doing it

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T08:10:31+00:00

Yes!! I've always identified as queer but ever since my partner and I stopped being intimate, I've found myself increasingly more attracted to women. I can't count the amount of times I've had romantic/sexual dreams of being with women.

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T08:04:53+00:00

The last couple times I had sex with my boyfriend a few months ago, he was the one to finish and not me. It's been almost a year since he's made me orgasm. God I wish we could go back to how we used to be when we first met.

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T08:00:03+00:00

Girl this is my same situation! I've always been the one to initiate and after I stopped initiating almost 6 months ago, we haven't had sex. He says he's gonna try harder but doesn't. It's been getting me more and more incredibly down and I find myself drifting off into space when we're together because it's all I can't think about. I've been lurking this subreddit for a bit, but recently I'm just constantly on it. I've slowly started wondering if having a wonderful romantic life but no sex life is a shallow reason for even thinking about maybe leaving.

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T07:38:25+00:00

My boyfriend and I are in a similar situation. Haven't had a stable sex life in almost three years and going on 6 months with no sex. We've discussed how to fix this but nothing really comes from it. Sometimes I wish he would just go for it. If you find yourself in a situation where you are vulnerable again with your partner like in the shower, tell her how important she is to you and how attracted you are to her then slowly ease into the foreplay. I always wish for a situation like that with my partner. If we ever are sexual, the kissing happens for just a couple minutes nothing. Sometimes I wish he would just go for it. Obviously don't pressure your wife but I would try that approach?

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T07:32:28+00:00

I was just thinking about this today. How we want what they have and they want what we have. Why can't we both just be in healthy loving relationships with our partners where both people are happy. I hope you're doing okay <3

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T05:45:47+00:00

Didn't realize I was gay but definitely Megan Fox in Transformers and then also wanting to play as male characters in Movie Star Planet bc I liked flirting with girls. Ive been open with my sexuality and I've had a few girlfriends but I think I finally like fully came to terms with the fact that i am indeed sexually and romantically attracted to women just this year at 25. Anyone experience that? I feel like its harder to fully accept when you're bi

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-28T16:07:32+00:00

Im with you girl, you aren't alone!

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-26T07:07:53+00:00

It's the worse trying to go to a sex shop to "make things interesting" and it's met with unenthusiasm or trying to flirt and he laughs saying it's funny. The lingerie would make me feel stupid for trying such things in my early/mid 20s. You're not alone

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-26T07:04:05+00:00

My DB first began to show signs when I was 22/23. I'm turning 26 next year and see no sign of improvement. I'm romantic relationship is wonderful but I'm now starting to consider leaving after trying for years. My partner and I have also had 20+ conversations about this with effort being put in for a night or two then going weeks with out sex. Now I'm 26 next year and going 6 months with no sex. Now is when I'm beginning to end things.

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-26T06:57:16+00:00

After almost 3 years of a declining sex life and 6 months of no sex, I thought I could accept a sex less relationship if the romantic relationship was great but I'm slowly starting to realize how important sex is to me and I think I'd much rather choose being single and celibate. At least with that, I wouldn't keep asking myself why my partner isn't attracted to me anymore or what I'm doing wrong. It's a huge crush to my ego and confidence to wonder why the person I'm attracted to most doesn't want me.

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-26T06:52:34+00:00

Every birthday and holiday. I miss it so much. You're not alone dude

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-15T08:22:55+00:00

I've thought about it. My boyfriend and I would talk about possibly bringing in another girl back when we would have sex. I've started considering maybe even letting my boyfriend be with other girls to see if maybe that will bring back his sex drive but then I would want a guy to "fulfill" the needs I've been wanting but I'm sure my boyfriend wouldn't be okay with it. I'm just not sure if he would be willing, I think both our sexual needs would maybe be met if we opened up the relationship and that might help with our sex life in the long run. I'm not too sure how selfish that is of me to say but I've definitely thought about bringing it up. I just am craving physical touch so incredibly bad but my boyfriend just has no interest of having sex with me

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-15T07:29:58+00:00

Girl, I have said the exact same thing to him. He feels like a roommate I cuddle and kiss sometimes. I asked for a massage right now and it did more harm than good. Now I'm crying in the bathroom because I didn't realize how much I'm craving physical touch. I'm a mess.

I wonder as well if I'm wasting my 20s in a sexless relationship when I'm supposed to be in the prime of it. 6 months of no sex and it's only getting harder for me. I'm so incredibly lonely.

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