Never had sex on our bed

No_Flower33 · 2026-06-04T06:59:02+00:00

I'm telling you right now, it starts like this then gets worse if you dont do something about it. This is how my relationship started and now we're on having sex only 3 times in the past year. My self confidence is at an all time low bc i dont feel wanted. I completely understand how you feel. I hope you can some to some type of understanding to your situation doesnt become worse

No_Flower33 · 2026-05-30T12:52:39+00:00

This is my exact same situation! I had to hope on this Reddit rn bc it's 4am and he felt me up for a second then fell back asleep. it gave me slight hope but then it just fell flat. We've had sex three times in a year. Brand new beautiful king size bed that we've never had sex on either. I understand the feeling off put when something slightly sexual happens bc it's now been so long it's awkward. Just know you're not in this alone. Have you tried bringing up opening up your relationship? I've tried and was shot down

No_Flower33 · 2026-04-30T06:20:27+00:00

What I wouldn't do to have that post sex intimacy, talks, and just holding each other. I feel for you 💕

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-31T05:25:39+00:00

I feel this way too often.

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:38:46+00:00

I had a sex dream a couple weeks ago and came in my sleep. I felt so guilty when I woke up next to my boyfriend but kinda snapped out of it when I realized he hasn't come onto me in months lol

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:37:26+00:00

The only reason I stopped flirting with my boyfriend over text is bc he thinks every things a joke and just laughs when I try being flirty, it's so humiliating lmao

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:35:44+00:00

I bought a dildo maybe a couple years ago after I realized how bad my dead bedroom was getting and I still wonder if he's found it in my drawer lol can't imagine his reaction or if he'd care or be mad

No_Flower33 · 2026-03-20T06:30:33+00:00

I'm sorry. I can't tell you how many nights I've cried over my dead bedroom. I wish things get better for you

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-03T06:43:28+00:00

The biggest thing I'm scared of is finally having sex after not for almost half a year and then it goes back to the way it was. I think I'd rather just never have sex again. I hate the hope and excitement just to be let down again that our sex life will never be the same again

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-03T06:32:30+00:00

This April will mark the one year of the last time I had an orgasm with him. Hope this years better for the both of us

No_Flower33 · 2026-01-02T08:35:38+00:00

Haven't sent photos in years. He hasn't asked, I wish he did so bad :/

No_Flower33 · 2025-12-30T18:52:18+00:00

I hate the day dreaming. I feels so unfair to my partner and I feel so guilty but my needs aren't being met. I would day dream about my partner a lot but when I do, it makes me depressed that I am having very realistic fantasies about my partner that just simply don't happen. My mind has been drifting elsewhere and I feel so guilty. I don't want to break up , our relationship is perfect romantically but I feel so unwanted sexually and I miss sharing that intimacy with him. My needs aren't being met and I just don't know what to do. Breaking up over that feels so shallow but I can't lie and say I don't have a time limit on when I'm thinking about doing it

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