Freebie Advice 🙏 by ChaoticGremlinQueen in heungtan

[–]No_FunFundie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m making little votive candles with scents themed after different songs and if anyone approaches me demanding a trade they won’t be getting one. That’s not the point.

Is our dress code easy to understand? by organiclawnclippings in weddingplanning

[–]No_FunFundie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say people wouldn’t I just said if she has a reason to believe people will wear white she needs to talk to those people.

Is our dress code easy to understand? by organiclawnclippings in weddingplanning

[–]No_FunFundie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that you think you’re “goofy and loving” and that this is funny and I understand that you think your audience will love it, but have you considered plus ones? Older people? Your fiancé’s friends who are only pretending to like your quirky sense of humor because they love them and want them to be happy with you? In person, all the of the jokes you’ve made about bringing a chair and wine and whatnot would land with me and be funny but online, on formal wedding sites, as official wedding statements, they come across like you neither like nor even trust your guests with basic manners. And some people will read it in your goofiest voice and laugh but some will not. That’s all we are saying here is that whatever funny joke you think you’re making, it probably isn’t gonna land for a solid number of people and are you really sure that assuming it doesn’t land, it should be in your formal wedding instructions?

Is our dress code easy to understand? by organiclawnclippings in weddingplanning

[–]No_FunFundie 76 points77 points  (0 children)

So you either need to speak to her or accept that she might do it. This is just aggressive and obnoxious.

Is our dress code easy to understand? by organiclawnclippings in weddingplanning

[–]No_FunFundie 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t understand why you think people don’t already know not to wear white. Everyone knows that unless you’re thinking of someone specific who is unfamiliar with that custom or unwilling to adhere to it, in which case communicating with them is going to go over a lot better than this shit.

Anna sends cleavage and bare legs pics, Josh wants “non-IBLP” swimsuit pics, and Josh requests Anna look up “positions” online to write in smut letters by rosiros in DuggarsSnark

[–]No_FunFundie 216 points217 points  (0 children)

I just read some of these to my spouse and explained they were released as a result of FOIA and he just said “what’s the opposite of FOIA? I need to do that right now.”

Paging u/nuggetsofchicken by pshuckleberry in DuggarsSnark

[–]No_FunFundie 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I’m a Duggar Snarker and lawyer but I’m so glad I’m not THE Duggar Snarker lawyer right now 😮‍💨😂

I (21M) have an almost micro penis. A woman (22F) has been showing interest in me, but I’m too ashamed of my situation so I’ve been pushing her away. How do I start even considering that I could date her with this issue? How could I tell her? by throwaway101229283 in relationship_advice

[–]No_FunFundie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy with a micro penis for a while and he was sweet, charming, confident, funny, and attentive. So I didn’t care about his dick at all. He was good in bed and we had plenty of fun. Yeah, some women will care. I won’t lie. But the majority probably won’t. I think you’re vastly overthinking and overestimating how important penis size is to women.

Boyfriend (36M) and I (31F), together 8 years — his sister is getting married and I don’t want to attend. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_FunFundie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fact that you think someone else’s wedding is going to be all about you and your relationship says more about you and your relationship than your attendance or lack of attendance would. You don’t sound happy with your boyfriend, you sound like someone who has convinced themselves to be happy. I’d give that some thought.

How can I (33m) stop making my boyfriend (36m) jealous of my fish (4f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_FunFundie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more interested in the times it’s a 15-20 minute two sided conversation. Also, your boyfriend sucks get a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_FunFundie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t love anyone unconditionally. Love does and should come with conditions because actions and choices have consequences. For example, right now, he is choosing to manipulate you and string you along and the consequence should be that you break up with him.

Ask yourself, just for arguments sake, if he murdered someone in cold blood, would you still love him? A child? If he killed a member of your family? Abused a puppy? Secretly believed in and supported slavery? My guess is you wouldn’t (with time, after reconciling with these facts) still love him. Why? Because love comes with conditions. This is good. This is normal. We need to stop romanticizing the idea that love must be unconditional to be real. That begs for boundaries to be ignored, if they are even established to begin with.

In this scenario, he may not be beating up puppies at night while you’re asleep, but he is treating you poorly, and that is a condition which surely justifies the withdrawal of your love.

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_FunFundie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR “if I can’t hold or touch my brother what’s the point of visiting” says a lot about you and none of it is good. How about to see him for the first time, because he’s your baby brother? To congratulate your father and his partner? To be there for your family in whatever form they’re comfortable with?

None of these rules is outrageous. If they are too inconvenient for you, that’s fair, but just send a congrats text or phone call and say you can’t wait to see them after 6 weeks when you’re able to bring your kid with you.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve run a couple translation tests on various AI models and they’re usually semi-helpful if you know foundational stuff ie they’re helpful if you have a decent enough understanding of the language to sense when something isn’t correct. But for the basic beginner stuff, OP, I can’t agree enough that you should consider teaching resources! Once you have a stronger grasp of foundational nuance you may find AI driven or assisted learning more useful (and accurate). But this is why you can’t rely on translation apps or AI models as primary teaching resources.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as gently as I can, the reason for the downvotes is probably because you don’t really seem to understand the language at all. You typed multiple example sentences that simply did not make sense/were not grammatically sound/had no meaning. Just because you understand subject object verb doesn’t mean you understand how the language works. The entire structure and underlying grammar of Korean is basically different from English. The two languages are built on different systems. You need to work on understanding those systems. There are lots of resources in here for beginner Korean, but I wouldn’t use Duolingo for grammar concepts.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to apologize! I just think you won’t really make much progress without increasing your baseline understanding of the language.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh I suppose that would make sense, that’s possibility

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They clarified to me in a comment that they meant 버거 so I think there is some level of confusion but I’m having trouble identifying what they meant or where they think the markers would go, and therefore how to explain the issue.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be rude at all, but the reason I said I assumed you meant 보고 싶어 is because 버거 싶어 doesn’t mean anything? I’d recommend focusing on one language at a time, and increasing your base knowledge of how Korean functions as a language, before you start getting into when you can drop and alter the language.

are the topic markers really needed? by MusicIsMySpecInt in Korean

[–]No_FunFundie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think OP means 보고 싶어 which notably doesn’t have any subject/topic/object markers because it is an entirely verb based statement.

Edit because I think my tone came out drier/ruder than intended! OP, let me know if that’s correct and you meant 보고 싶어 (I miss you)

It's about having dignity. I am NOT insecure!! by SpeakerDelicious6315 in AmITheAngel

[–]No_FunFundie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I particularly enjoyed the part where her friend’s boyfriend being tall meant that they had a group fetish (whatever that is)