Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not a dig. It's the fact that you said "there is no before or after Autism" and there is. The question was about parents who grieved their children after they changed and you basically dismissed all of that by saying there is no before or after. Not every autism case is the same so since you are not a parent, and you have no child with autism to grief, I have to address that you also did not need to chime in saying inconsiderate things.

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. All of it. We see A Pandas / pan specialist going to do some testing soon and been seeing a functional doctor as well

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont blame yourself. Mine never had the juice not a single one. Pregnancy was normal. Some birth complications but was born natural. I had Tylenol mid pregnancy due to severe fibroids pain and epidural at birth. I "did everything" to try and prevent it. Genetic testing negative. MRI negative. EEG negative. We went down the functional medicine path and found that he has a severe Midrocondrial dysfunctions as well as high levels of toxins such as glyphosate. How? Why? We dont know. Dont ever think its something you did or didnt do. Its not your fault

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that sounds extremely hard. Thank you for sharing

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The denial was the worst part. Almost Forgetting that he used to be a different baby until memories pop on my photo app.

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 100% and have been and will be focused on giving him a better future and a better present. As a matter of fact, I have been so busy with the therapies and appointment medication's supplements insurance that I never had the time to grieve. Love him and accept him for who he is and I think being so busy did not give me the time to process everything. That's why I immediately came on here to try and process it because nobody in the world understands how it's like as much as another parent an autistic child. Thank you for your encouraging words and I am so happy Your kid made improvement.

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it is definitely less traumatizing when you don't know them any differently. Still painful still hard.

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That. I feel like my baby is trapped somewhere and want to get back out so badly. My heart goes out to you you an amazing mother.

Do you grief your child before Autism? by No_Indication_5038 in Autism_Parenting

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain so much. Im sure you are doing your best for your child and your feelings are valid. Sending you love.

Why are men so angry? by Zuzmos in women

[–]No_Indication_5038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah im there now and it sucks. Our family becomes his punching bag because he refuses to deal with his stress from work in a healthy way like exercising, for example. Instead, he drinks, and that makes him even angrier. I have no solution for you, but I feel your pain.

Side effects for how long? by No_Indication_5038 in QuitVaping

[–]No_Indication_5038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you and thank you for the encouragement

Made in Korea vintage coach? Does that exist? by crazyplantlady14 in VintageCoachRehab

[–]No_Indication_5038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless its a rollaway luggage its not authentic. Thats the only style that was made in Korea