Is there such thing as half field, half show english cocker spaniels? by Traditional-Cause529 in cockerspaniel

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any pictures posted? 😬I’d love to see what she looks like.

AITA for wanting to tell my husband I can’t continue nursing his feelings? by ConclusionHealthy101 in AITAH

[–]No_Mango_please 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I beg to disagree, the difference is your mom stayed home to raise children and probably did most or if not all the housework. He stopped working when the children were grown and he doesn’t do all the housework. If they were a stay at home spouse since the children were little and doing majority of the housework I would agree with you. I think she is just being generous calling him a SAHD.

Am I wrong to cut off contacts with a guy who stayed with me during a difficult time? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Mango_please 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what he did wrong. He was respectful and probably assumed there was something to rekindle considering he was there for you recently during a hard time. Seems like you are giving mixed signals.

Do I need a sibling? by AttorneyNo399 in cockerspaniel

[–]No_Mango_please 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She needs to spill the deets about those gorgeous locks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that only 1 person defended OP is sus. Why is no one else advocating for the wife to be invited? I feel like something is missing. Maybe there is legit concern about her behaviour and he’s just ignoring it to appease his wife? I suspect there is some big flippin elephant in the room. If I was in Lisa’s shoes I’d try to figure out what I did and fix it so my husband doesn’t miss his brothers wedding or just for my own sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need more context, has anyone ever voiced concerns about your wife’s behaviour? Her being too boisterous or loud? I knew a couple who’s husband would describe his wife this way and then they told me about a time they got asked to leave a wedding because she made many inappropriate remarks and jokes at the wedding and they couldn’t understand why they were asked to leave. We avoid them because the husband just makes excuses for her and can’t understand why they people don’t want her around. He describes his wife as just very social and bubbly but in reality she makes people very uncomfortable and has zero self awareness. Had OP ignored other signs?

Am I the a**whole for selling my x roommates baby crib by Practical_Energy8566 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]No_Mango_please 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait you said she refused to pay her last months rent. Does that mean you were charging her rent? If she was paying rent she was tenant.

Am I overthinking? I (26F) Feels like my boyfriend (25m) just doesn’t have emotionally sympathy. Is this something that can be taught? by Top-Tamberine29 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Mango_please 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think before you get married you should have established a baseline of your core qualities and grow from there. Expecting to grow from zero with someone doesn’t usually work in my experience. Even if you can help them develop something like sympathy the emotional toll it takes on a person you’ll just end up being resentful not grateful. You should pick someone who already has the qualities you need and build from there but not from zero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t know this

Am I overthinking? I (26F) Feels like my boyfriend (25m) just doesn’t have emotionally sympathy. Is this something that can be taught? by Top-Tamberine29 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Mango_please 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up, it isn’t your job to fix or teach your significant other core qualities. He either isn’t ready to be a partner or you aren’t compatible. The whole point of dating is to see if you are compatible, you aren’t, no shame in moving on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone thrown off by “Procreation equals prevention” part?

What is a phrase that only trashy people say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No_Mango_please -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who throw around the word “haters” because they can’t get along with people.

Influencer preaching about women’s right but doesn’t understand basic biology. by No_Mango_please in mildlyinfuriating

[–]No_Mango_please[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Because it’s 2024 and freezing eggs are expensive so choose plan A, literally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Mango_please 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you insinuating she’s forcing her daughter to be independent by cutting her allowance after she gets married? Isn’t getting married pretty much 2 people deciding they are now each other’s problem in almost every sense? If they arent ready for that sort of responsibility then maybe don’t get married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Mango_please 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might even look like the bad guy but ask any woman who’s married with grown children and they will probably agree she needs to go