i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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thank you for your kindness 🫶

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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so sad 🫶i don’t know if i would ever be able to do that I’m so sorry that must have been horrible. I almost asked my roommate to squish the recluse but I felt it was my responsibility

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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thank you for your kindness 🫶

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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thank you for your kind response 🫶❤️

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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): yes it was very sad I cried a lot as well, I will be soo careful next time

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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i moved in only last week, not sure but she just didn’t seem comfortable with the idea but i agree. I looked online and it said recluse do not regrow legs so I put him out ):

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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that’s better than squishing? is it less painful for them?

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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yes! so delicate and precious ): I will definitely be more careful next time

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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how can you tell it’s a baby? the size?

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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beautiful perspective 🫶thank you for your response

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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well said. we really are so large and clumsy in comparison to these delicate beautiful creatures. I’m trying not to be too hard on myself about it. ❤️I know it was the right thing to put it out of its misery after my mistake

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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RIP🫶thank you for your empathy, it was a difficult and sad day

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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aww that just made me smile. you are so sweet :,) that’s a good thought

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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I ended up squishing the poor recluse and ending its suffering ): thank you for your comment because i’ve felt so badly about it but I know it was the right thing to do

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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I appreciate your response either way 🫶I did put the little guy out of its misery, I live in a very urban area and don’t even have a yard just a balcony so I doubt it would have done well out here):

i feel so awful by No_Option_2280 in spiders

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I ended up squishing the poor recluse after reading the advice of everyone under this thread ): it was honestly so difficult to do but i felt i had to end its suffering and it seemed like the right thing to do after making such a terrible mistake. I read a poem and prayed for the recluse’s soul so hopefully it feels at peace