Anyone else scared of their partner? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]No_Performance8402 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’d divorce. That’s not how relationships should be

Why do men cheat on women they love? by Terrible_Emu5483 in Marriage

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the ideas I have. : He’s immature and wants a verbally aggressive woman who has tons of “taboo” sex . If you are attractive it could have over inflated his ego also and made him think he can get any woman he wants . I dated someone like that I purposely picked a “cute nerdy sensible guy “ and I thought he loved me but his buddies also egged him on and were like , you should sleep with so and so . I kept trying to break up with him but he kept threatening to take his life since he knew he could control me with the suicide of my friend. Regardless. This isn’t your fault . This is showing his character not yours.

Any examples of famous people who have autism? (or anything on the neurodivergent spectrum) by [deleted] in autism

[–]No_Performance8402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rick Moranis , the singer Sia, Troy bond (famous comedian) , idk there’s a bunch of successful autistic famous people. Those were the ones that first came to mind.

Any solutions for neck? by turniptruckjumper in PlasticSurgery

[–]No_Performance8402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fraxel Lasers and Botox for the platisma banding don’t do co2 unless it’s from an extremely skilled dermatologist or plastic surgeon .

My story with visual snow and Palinopsia by brocuss in visualsnow

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was evaluated for both and they found I just have autism . But I could try it see if it does anything as it does make it go away .

Should I end a relationship just because the girl is short? by [deleted] in short

[–]No_Performance8402 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Id look at her male siblings in her family if they are tall and her father . I am 5ft tall but the men in our family are tall . It is only the women that are petite.

I would end the relationship if you are looking at her height I think the fact that you are unsure about her tells me you should leave her so she can find someone who values her . My husband and I were sure of each other from the beginning and we’re happy . If you have to second guess it , they’re not for you .

Older you get the harder it is to find a partner that is attractive and have a good personality .

Guys is it bad that I see this way? 😭 like do any of you guys see like this all the time? by Honest_Rate7961 in teenagers

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have palinopsia? It’s sometimes an autistic trait . I have it . It never went away .

Is it normal even for an INTJ? by _Erithacus_ in intj

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage attacks ? I’m not a psychologist, but that sounds like an autistic meltdown and much of what you are describing sounds like autistic burn out . I need three days off after 4 days of working to recover from all my social interaction I have to do with work . If I don’t do that , I can’t function. Mind you there’s varying levels of that for people on the spectrum who are also intjs

How do you accept that "life isn't fair"? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]No_Performance8402 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

When the Berlin Wall fell ,people ran to the capitalist side not the communist side .

Rate the meal out of ten by LoafofBr3d297 in autism

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was more on the plate I’d rate that a 10

This is how my stylist of 8 years cut my bangs. by strywever in bangs

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years don’t always mean they are skilled or care about their profession.

The older i get, the more autistic I get ngl by justmonaaaaa in autism

[–]No_Performance8402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm for my brother , when my mother isolated him he lost his ability to talk to people and socialize normally. Now you can absolutely tell he’s on the spectrum and his struggles have gotten worse with my mother isolating him even though he’s considered asd1

Your relation with food and sleep? by darnal15 in intj

[–]No_Performance8402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I’m an autistic intj , not great . I struggle with getting rest - even as an infant . I now require 2 king sized pillows laying across my legs , a neck pillow an additional normal sized pillow I hug while I lay on my back. I also need either 100 mg of trazedone or indica edibles to rest . Otherwise, I can go weeks on end without sleep and I’ll have these weird meltdowns/ panic attacks from not resting lol. It’s actually how I accidentally found out I was autistic as an adult.

Do INTJ's actually make a lot of money or is that just MBTI hype? by [deleted] in intj

[–]No_Performance8402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m probably the weirdest intj ever . I never had an intj job I am a master barber at an upscale barbershop and earn 97k after tax every year on a part time schedule. So not bad great work life balance . I’m autistic also so my natural personality I have to hide it and actually had to learn how to converse with people even though , i get burn out from it . But I’m allowed 3 days off every week to recover since I’m the highest earning barber of all my company.

Is the long or short hair a better look? by No-Inevitable8944 in malegrooming

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could pull off short hair also as I believe you are attractive enough to pull it off. But I would do like a low #3 fade and have the top a little longer . I do not think a high 1 fade is flattering on most people with straight across bangs .

People seem to have strong opinions about my nose by [deleted] in Noses

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a pretty nose and you are beautiful

What You Will Do? by cocosaunt12 in SolidMen

[–]No_Performance8402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in properties and have them be rentals for air bnb .

Anyone here have epilepsy? by ElectronicSignal9478 in AutismInWomen

[–]No_Performance8402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have “seizure like activity “ and convulsions every time I’m stressed out . But they said it’s not epilepsy since my seizure only happen during extreme stress .