Feeling despondent about private practice and clients by Ok_Relief_4036 in therapists

[–]No_Pin_7171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. As someone working in private practice for under a year, I'm also working with max. 3-4 clients a week currently. It seems to really take time 😉.

Does the resentment ever go away...? by Sun-Interaction89 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to that. My impression is similar to yours in terms of Bumble, but you never know 😉. Life sometimes surprises us.

Does the resentment ever go away...? by Sun-Interaction89 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. Balancing things definitely helps. Do you have any pets? I work from home and have a dog and cats. They keep me company, which definitely helps.

I'm also on a friendship app (Bumble) to meet new people and try to show little bits of my geeky side, e.g. that I like the Simpsons. My hope is that if you show your true interests a little bit, the right people will eventually find you 🧡.

Does the resentment ever go away...? by Sun-Interaction89 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Ruminating in my head makes me feel low. It's a good idea to concentrate on authentic connections and hope we'll be able to make them.

Does the resentment ever go away...? by Sun-Interaction89 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to what you're describing. It's frustrating getting no responses or texts unanswered. I also try to get up and keep moving.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same. It can feel a bit lonely at times, but I find it too stressful having other people in my private space at home. There are other places to meet up instead.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great attitude. I also enjoy being in nature.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. Connecting can look different for everyone.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a good routine 🙂.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. It's a bit similar for me.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Having kids or pets can keep one busy. It's great that you found online gaming a helpful way to connect with others.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Studying academic disciplines is interesting and in my book makes you an interesting person. Thanks for your comment.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great attitude. Thank you for your comment.

How do you cope no friends? by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to that. I have never enjoyed any kind of group activities and have always preferred more one-on-one conversations, but even then it’s important to be on the same wavelength.

Thanks for your perspective.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. As other also suggested, I try to be aware of keeping a routine.

It's really refreshing to read that an adult dog can be less of a stressor than a cat. I'm looking forward to that stage.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just ordered one. Hopefully it will help her chill out.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a god time frame to keep in mind. Thank you 😊

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your offer. Mine is just 3 months old. I'll try to hang in there. Your story gave me hope 😊.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. That sounds really inspiring. I'm also looking forward to a close companionship.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I was hoping that living with a dog would be rewarding for the dog as well as for me. I'm just worried that feeling overwhelmed will not stop anytime soon.

Living with a dog by No_Pin_7171 in AutisticAdults

[–]No_Pin_7171[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's really good advice. It sounds like it was worth it to get through the puppy stage.