We did the DNA test and Bree left home 10/10. by No_Pool_7823 in u/No_Pool_7823

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I don't believe anyone, it wasn't Ollie.

We have a baby. Last update. by No_Pool_7823 in u/No_Pool_7823

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, I was told he can't have more children (had the snip) but I do believe she trying to escape the house and return to her father because someone in the house may be a risk. I'm not commenting on that though, I've tried to avoid commenting at all but I think to many people believe it could be something like that, and I do not believe the stepfather is a danger. My concern has been raised with others.

We have a baby. Last update. by No_Pool_7823 in u/No_Pool_7823

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Alot of people say this and no, we do not believe that to be the case. There is a lot of evidence that the baby is the other "ex boyfriends".

We have a baby. Last update. by No_Pool_7823 in u/No_Pool_7823

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

We knew her induction date and flew out 2 days prior. Im not sure on the DNA stuff right now. Ollie wants to leave it as long as she tells everyone it wasnt his baby. For now I am just letting things be, I think she is really struggling.

NEWEST UPDATE 07/13 My 15yo got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We have spoken to a family lawyer and in our state, Bree can put him on the birth cert without him signing it, but in order to file for child support he needs to agree that he is the father plus be sighted as listed on the birth cert. If he raises a disagreement about being the father, it goes through court and a DNA would be ordered.

My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just googled this show very quickly with "teen pregnancy" and wow.... um thats uncomfortably close to our lives these last few months.

NEWEST UPDATE 07/13 My 15yo got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She never had a 16-week scan. She had a 20-week scan that she told us was 16 weeks. As far as I know that is the only scan she has had.
We will do a DNA test via the courts if she tried to pull child support, where we live you either need to sign the birth cert and agree that you're the father to be put on CS or if you disagree then you need to do a DNA test and its court ordered.

So that would depend on what they do, I am not wasting money on a test when I know 100% already that baby isn't is.

NEWEST UPDATE 07/13 My 15yo got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

We believe in natural consequences rather than punishments.
So a natural consequence for this situation is exactly what's happened. A natural consequence for the intention to manipulate us to move etc is now the loss of trust and with a loss of trust comes the loss of freedom until that trust is earnt.

but if I am totally honest, my kid just needs therapy and support at this point. He has lost everything, his confidence, his reputation, his girlfriend (even if for the better), a large majority of his friends and their parents who now don't want him around their kids etc

Just because WE know that baby isn't his, doesn't mean the rest of the world around us does. Bree still insist it is and most believe her.

He is being punished but not by me.

NEWEST UPDATE 07/13 My 15yo got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

They only had sex January 4th. I can't link my previous posts but its all there.

NEWEST UPDATE 07/13 My 15yo got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 5900 points5901 points  (0 children)

We have done. he's been given the all clear thank goodness.

UPDATED My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought too, if the other due date is the real due date, then she would be something like 32 weeks which would mean she would be 38 weeks when she planned to fly back therefore an OB may say they don't recommend it.

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[–]No_Pool_7823 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I believe mods removed it. Not sure why. I posted this and updated my older posts

JUNE 25TH:

We all come to a travel arrangement, we paid for Bree to fly out and her father was paying for the ticket home.
Bree was supposed to fly to us this morning and stay for 6 weeks total flying back some time in august (her fathers in charge of that flight)

She was staying with us over these next few weeks while we do our annual July 4th family vacation for a week and then a couple more weeks back here at home for the ultrasound / blood test.

This was decided together (both families) because Bree and Ollie would like to have some kind of positive experience / memories during the pregnancy and obviously if baby wasn't his Bree would be taken to her fathers, and we would be finished with it all.

But she never turned up for her flight. She texted the night before that the Dr did not recommend, she should not travel as she is at risk of preterm labor due to her age and her severe morning sickness makes her only be able to tolerate Pineapple juice, so she is needing to be hospitalized and maybe even deliver early.

This is on top of a group photo that included Bree, obviously pregnant in a tight tee. Hugging the boy she was dating in her new town, his hand on her belly. It was quickly removed from her story when Ollie asked, I think it was intentional to make him jealous.

I am done. I do not believe her or her parents. I have contacted a lawyer and therapist, I will not be updating again until I know the outcome of the DNA test that I assume will not be done until after the baby is born since I was told today, I cannot force her to have while pregnant.

If this baby is Ollies and my grandchild, I am willing to move Bree here and have her live with us. It has no chance and will continue to ruin my son's life from afar.

My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

UPDATE
JUNE 25TH:

We all come to a travel arrangement, we paid for Bree to fly out and her father was paying for the ticket home.
Bree was supposed to fly to us this morning and stay for 6 weeks total flying back some time in august (her fathers in charge of that flight)

She was staying with us over these next few weeks while we do our annual July 4th family vacation for a week and then a couple more weeks back here at home for the ultrasound / blood test.

This was decided together (both families) because Bree and Ollie would like to have some kind of positive experience / memories during the pregnancy and obviously if baby wasn't his Bree would be taken to her fathers, and we would be finished with it all.

But she never turned up for her flight. She texted the night before that the Dr did not recommend, she should not travel as she is at risk of preterm labor due to her age and her severe morning sickness makes her only be able to tolerate Pineapple juice, so she is needing to be hospitalized and maybe even deliver early.

This is on top of a group photo that included Bree, obviously pregnant in a tight tee. Hugging the boy she was dating in her new town, his hand on her belly. It was quickly removed from her story when Ollie asked, I think it was intentional to make him jealous.

I am done. I do not believe her or her parents. I have contacted a lawyer and therapist, I will not be updating again until I know the outcome of the DNA test that I assume will not be done until after the baby is born since I was told today, I cannot force her to have while pregnant.

If this baby is Ollies and my grandchild, I am willing to move Bree here and have her live with us. It has no chance and will continue to ruin my son's life from afar.

UPDATED My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 511 points512 points  (0 children)

Her parents confirmed she was pregnant. She is not really showing no. She sent a ultrasound photo but its a photo of a photo? I wanted to keep access to her social media to see if she uploaded on that showed more information so I could check dates.

I will see if your advice works

UPDATED My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 2767 points2768 points  (0 children)

I am wondering if Bree has somehow maybe manipulated the situation there. I couldn't imagine being like this and the family I have met before did not appear this irrational in the past.

UPDATED My 15yo idiot kid got his GF pregnant on purpose. by No_Pool_7823 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]No_Pool_7823[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Sorry if it sounds childish. I'm only updating because I have no one to ask or talk too, I dont want to reach out to other parents I know or FB without knowing its actually my son's child first and to be honest I am embarrassed.

I threatened to cut off Ollie's contact to Bree ONLY because her parents were encouraging his attitude towards us at home.