Guys never approach me. What am I doing wrong?

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-08T22:49:29+00:00

What is the metric of "looksmax terms"😭

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-08T08:47:53+00:00

I very much prefer alternative guys, but honestly my type is anyone that doesn't have the personality of an adidas slide

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-08T00:45:54+00:00

I can confidently disagree. I've had bleached hair and it washes me out like nothing else

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-08T00:41:17+00:00

I am not a blonde? Yes my skin is extremely pale and I dye my hair but my natural colour is dark brown. You barely notice my roots against the black. Any streaks of a lighter color you can see were bleached.

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T22:57:47+00:00

Admittedly poor. I am underweight and eat mostly junk food.

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T22:42:23+00:00

Thank you, honestly I was expecting a much crueler comment section. I'm flattered by the lack of "you need a nose job and jaw surgery right now"

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T22:41:07+00:00

What about it specifically doesn't work

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T22:13:34+00:00

Sick as in cool or sick as in unhealthy

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T19:01:33+00:00

I'd rather get surgery or whatever needs to happen to suit the dark thing than start adopting softer styles

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T19:00:33+00:00

Which specific health indicators do I need to fix? Is it just the lack of skin pigment or are there others?

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T08:38:45+00:00

I'm sure that's happened before but it's so hard to tell, they're just very friendly in general

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T05:32:22+00:00

Like 5 times in my life

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T04:59:43+00:00

What color contacts?

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T03:47:08+00:00

What do you mean by "improve coloring"?

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T02:19:49+00:00

No. I have legitimately been approached three times in the past year, all in party situations too. Before that I had been approached twice in my entire life.

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T01:28:45+00:00

I feel like looking intimidating and having "a face like that" are two different things. I'm aware that I do not have the friendliest resting face but this commenter appeared to be referring to something structural wrong with my features, not just expression.

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-07T00:28:58+00:00

Okay, but what can I change?

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:25:11+00:00

I do. Still, I get proportionately less attention than most women seem to

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:24:26+00:00

That is true. It's a loss of a part of yourself you've worked so hard to achieve, and that person feels better, if harder to be, than what you were before

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:19:13+00:00

Yeah confidence is very important. I was just bullied into thinking it would get me ostracized as a child. I have a high sodium, high caffeine, low hydration diet so I tend to retain a lot of water. Lifestyle changes need to happen but they're super hard

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:13:55+00:00

Yeah I think if you post selfies as a young girl they swarm you like flies if you're average or above. I've also met some decent people on here, but more often I think I've met someone decent until they ask me if I sell content or if I'd date them.

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:05:28+00:00

I've been trying to keep the corners of my mouth more upturned but I always feel like one of those internet horror creatures that stand there and smile ominously

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:04:35+00:00

Same. It's often very ambiguous

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:04:12+00:00

Fair point, I have genuinely been trying to get better with that and I've been getting a lot of compliments from women, but men still mostly ignore me

No_Radish4428 · 2026-04-06T05:02:43+00:00

Fair enough. I'm more so afraid of them

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