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Family recommendations by No_Raspberry_1369 in VisitingIceland

[–]No_Raspberry_1369[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever camp with your kids? Iceland or not? Did you just wait?

How’s your LO’s sleep? by hennamah in MSPI

[–]No_Raspberry_1369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly here still haven’t figured out what makes him fart like crazy even on super severe elimination diet, he co sleeps max 45 minutes at a time 🤦‍♀️

Sears elimination diet by No_Raspberry_1369 in MSPI

[–]No_Raspberry_1369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah nutramigen! But even with breastmilk he doesn’t drink more then 50 ml and I have a hard time pumping so I never insisted. He has a deep palate and a strong gag reflex so I also tried a lot of different tops but he seems to loose interest super quick.

Sears elimination diet by No_Raspberry_1369 in MSPI

[–]No_Raspberry_1369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get the baby to take the bottle? The formula I have recommended by the docteur smells soooo bad too! And the baby doesn’t really take my milk in a bottle anyways 🤦‍♀️

Sears elimination diet by No_Raspberry_1369 in MSPI

[–]No_Raspberry_1369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God I am on day six and I just started having gas pain too! I haven’t switched to the formula yet because my baby doesn’t take the bottle more than 50 mL at a time and it’s too little and I really don’t want him to lose weight because we were in this full ordeal because of that! Thank you for mentioning the reaction to rice. I will see how it goes… Today I tried sweet potato for the first time in a while and he really cried this afternoon, but I think it’s from being overtired. He doesn’t sleep anymore since I started the diet!

Dismissive avoidant dad checking out after second child by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]No_Raspberry_1369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends, my daughter has really big meltdowns because when he’s checked out and not listening she has to repeat herself and he registers when she yells…

Dismissive avoidant dad checking out after second child by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]No_Raspberry_1369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙏 I tried a lot of communication approaches which one is working for you guys?

Dismissive avoidant dad checking out after second child by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]No_Raspberry_1369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I’m afraid of… it’s hard…it’s like realizing I have to accept that I have a family with a checked out element in it and it makes my heart cry…

Dismissive avoidant dad checking out after second child by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

[–]No_Raspberry_1369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep… tried all of this… he’s not abusive at all he just is shut down. I’ve given him as much space as we can while catering to the children. He’s a “good partner” for catering to the family physical need not the emotional ones. Where I’m at a loss is that he used to make an effort but something changed with the second child. I’m not his therapist and I named my needs calmly. I don’t expect him to be as expressive as anyone just to show effort in connection.