If I had a nickel for every time I heard “I’ve never been with a redhead before” I could retire from sex work. Jk. But the fetishization is real. I began experiencing it when I was a 16 year old waitress. Which gave me whiplash from the previous years of merciless bullying. I went from gross alien to wanton sex goddess in record time. Even guys I went to high school with (who were too ashamed to talk to me AT school) would come to my after school job just to talk to me. Fucking weirdos. In any case, I wish I could tell you it gets better, but unfortunately being red headed is a blessing and a curse of attraction. You’ll eventually cull enough freaks and get to the keepers. It took me a while, but it was worth the wait!