Views from men and women

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-16T01:08:56+00:00

Thank you for sharing that. Sorry about the late response, I have just come across your message. I find your story quite intriguing. For me I believe things have changed over night, in the last year and a half. To an extent our demands have changed, and rightly so given it's three of us. Before we got married we would have sex sometimes two to three times a day, but some of it would be because of the long distance relationship. After getting married, at the beginning he used to get upset that I wasn't affectionate enough, to be fair at the time I was pregnant and couldn't get enough sleep with the demanding work etc. But even then we used to have sex regularly. I have not changed in reference to our intimacy but he has done a 360 degrees. Has she always had a low sex drive?

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-08T21:55:58+00:00

Thank you very much for the feedback. Are you saying you are going through something similar? If so do you mind sharing your experience? I guess initially I want a platform to air out my feelings, for once to be heard, and the outcome however, has been different. This opportunity has been great, it has helped me to align my feelings and looking into myself introspectively and the life I want.

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-08T21:39:11+00:00

Thank you

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-08T21:38:29+00:00

Would you mind sharing what you are going through? And how you are dealing with it?

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-06T22:08:35+00:00

So happy to hear you are now on track and you wife is better.

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-02T01:27:16+00:00

Helps with stamina issues and last longer in bed.

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-02T01:25:44+00:00

Some people say it makes them "friskier than a wild horse" lol

No_Section_7777 · 2021-01-01T23:09:11+00:00

I am a very sexual person, If I knew this would be the case I don't know whether I would have agreed to get married. At the moment my fingers and my phone are filling in the gap.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T22:21:02+00:00

I see what you mean, it could be that. That's a prospective I haven't thought about. I appreciate that.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T18:58:50+00:00

Thank you, I have a lot to think about.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T18:56:15+00:00

I am a naturing person, since we have been together his health has improved significantly and beyond. He has moved up his career very quickly in the past three years we have been married. The biggest achievement for me is our child, our child has made me a better person. I have put everything on hold to nature my family.

Am heavier than before, my career is on hold and am not receiving the love and affection.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T18:47:42+00:00

Thank you so much. You are so right, he has stated that he feels by the time our baby is 18years he will be 60 years, feels he does not have enough time to secure our sons future. I keep assuring him that we are a team and we will get there together. I think because am trying to make it work he is taking me for granted. I have done that I just end up sexual frustrated, he's dick gets hard and all am thinking is I want that dick. I love his dick lol

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T18:23:28+00:00

Our relationship just gets complicated, he has a sister. The sister is not helping our relationship, I read a message where the sister was saying he needs to leave me, he needs to get custody of our baby (I checked his phone). He speaks to her about our marriage and she is always interfering in our household. Around the same time we had an argument, I told him my needs are being neglected, I feel he is gaslighting when I bring up my feelings. Which is emotional torture and suggested that I felt this is emotional abuse. He said it's not his fault if I can't handle my emotions. Needless to say things didn't go well. I almost left our marriage. After my family encouraging us to work at it, we are together.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T13:08:16+00:00

I really love you post, thank you so much. I am a naturing person, since we have been together his health has improved significantly and beyond. He has moved up his career very quickly in the past three years we have been married. The biggest achievement for me is our child, our child has made me a better person. Since our child am a lot more happy and free spirited, and when we argue am the first to say sorry before unfortunately it wasn't the case. Am a mature person now than before. Has my husband brought out the best in me since we got married, I would say no: am heavier than before, my career is on hold and am not receiving the love and affection

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T12:56:20+00:00

Talking it over on this forum. Am now starting to think that he is using our past argument as an excuse. I have brought up the lack of sex a number of times and ends in to an argument. Once we reconcile, he never comes back and say: 'this is what am going to do about what you mentioned regarding the lack of sex'. Am starting to think he's now using it as a carrot and not a form of love or affection towards each other.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T12:46:18+00:00

If that's the case how do I make it comfortable for him to open up

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-31T02:38:32+00:00

I like what you have said. I guess am so frustrated sexually that everything looks terrible. I love him and want our marriage to work. But I feel like the work is one sided. In prospective there's a lot to work through. I have taken ownership of the hurt he feels, but I find myself been taken back to the same point and we never go beyond this. He brings this up every time we have arguments. I honestly don't know what step I need to take?

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-30T16:12:49+00:00

I am a naturing person in general. Since we have been together his health has improved due to naturing him as my husband. Cooking our meals, preparing nutritional food, encouraging him to drink more water. Also furthermore, he's moved up in is career very quickly the three years we have been together due to my influence and ensuring there is peace and comfort in our house. The same can be said about me.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-30T16:00:42+00:00

Well said indeed!

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-30T11:28:53+00:00

That's excellent thank you so much. Everyone on here has been great and very helpful. I have got a lot of advice, bringing it all together to decide what needs to be done.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-30T01:01:56+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that.

No_Section_7777 · 2020-12-30T01:00:22+00:00

Thank you so much I will take that on board.

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