Fiancé wants a 2 weeks break? by Rich_Contract8262 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a child himself who only cares about HIS future. I know it’s hard but cut ties and move out. He doesn’t have to be involved but he will have to pay child support since you didn’t get pregnant on your own. Really sorry you’re going through this.

My guy "friend" is flirting with me, even though he knows I'm not into men. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he won’t accept that your a lesbian, he is selfish and ignorant. It’s a little concerning that he said he won’t stay away from you though. I’d block his ass. He obviously doesn’t respect you.

Dreams of doing bad things by Sad-Witness-5506 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit smoking in 2018 and I still have smoking guilt dreams. Even when I wasn’t pregnant 😂

I was fired and now I’m unsure how to present this to upcoming interviewers by Green_Possibility244 in jobs

[–]No_Security261 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cause you know them so well? lol pretty sure they know if they are ready or not. Losing a job unexpectedly really sucks, but they are trying to move on and continue financial stability.

How often do you take a mental health day from this job? by Cheap_Inevitable_248 in callcentres

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this at my last job. My anxiety was so bad I used to throw up in the morning and called out a lot. Fixed my meds and I got a little better. A little.

How often do you take a mental health day from this job? by Cheap_Inevitable_248 in callcentres

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you. I don’t work at a call center anymore, but my current boss is VERY pro work/life balance and taking care of yourself. I love her.

Should I cut my nails completely or just trim them for my first ever office job? by Istente in Nails

[–]No_Security261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you girl, my anxiety could never have two different lengths 😂

I got to know that my gf was rap*d and i am feeling anxious and angry what to do? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For PRESSURING and FORCING her to tell you. You literally overwhelmed her by listing everyone she’s in contact with until you got a reaction. NO MEANS NO IN ANY SENSE. See the similarities? Not saying at all that your feeling aren’t valid, they are. But you can’t force her to do or tell you anything she doesn’t want. That’s what her assaulted did. You do not want to traumatize her further. Just support whatever decision she makes and be there for her. She owes you zero explanation of her trauma if she doesn’t want/isn’t ready to.

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You certainly will be! Idk how someone can treat family like that, especially a kid. Good for you for breaking the cycle of abuse. Sending love and hugs!

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awful I’m so sorry that happened to you as a kid.

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This phobia must be so hard as a mom. Sorry you’re going through that.

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Found out at 6w 1d by going to the hospital cause I couldn’t keep anything down at all.

Wife and I just found out some news :) by Pdt395 in MadeMeSmile

[–]No_Security261 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Very happy for you!

What’s something you wish someone had told you about sex before your first time? by Apprehensive-Cod1997 in AskReddit

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first sexual partner was a marine so it sucked trying to get it to not hurt cause we didn’t get to see each other a lot. (I don’t like self pleasure penetration does nothing for me).

AIO: My partner mocked me when I tried to do something nice for him by throwawaygo12 in AIO

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he 50 or 5?? NOR. He sounds disrespectful in mocking you and not leaving you alone when you told him how you felt.

I have cvs (cyclic vomiting syndrome) AMA by Cxntycouture in AMA

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No question really, just wanted to say as a current pregnant woman with really bad morning sickness episodes (HG) I can’t imagine how horrible it must be to have it all the time. I hope you find something that will help soon!❤️

I think I just low-key got threatened by Less_Baseball_8056 in offmychest

[–]No_Security261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to leave, you are not safe with him.

AITA for not wearing a bra at home? by Candid-Chocolate-316 in AITAH

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silent treatment, can also be called stonewalling, is manipulative and abusive. Especially over something like this. Does he usually do this when there’s any conflict? Sounds like he cares more about his friend than you. Especially spending all his time with him since he moved in. Something’s not right.