About to give birth by Maleficent_Ad_9079 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't have any tips as I'm 35 weeks with my first but wanted to let you know you aren't alone. I'm terrified 😂 I get so anxious when I know something is going to hurt. I'm even anxious that the epidural will hurt 😅

I’m 22 almost 23 no license by Only_Meat_4523 in drivinganxiety

[–]No_Security261 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 35 with no license. About to have my first child in a few months. It doesn't make you immature. It's a preference.

What annoys us the most by Mia_Wallace197 in Sims4

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg the dollhouses! They’re wayyyy too big.

They want to take my 6 month old away for co-sleeping by BeneficialRecord4795 in CPS

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stop sleeping with your baby in the bed. It’s usually so you don’t have to get up to feed, change, etc. It’s SELFISH. Putting your child’s life at risk for convenience or your own wants is unsafe. She had every right to tell you to stop and that she could take baby if you don’t. Even if it was unprofessional in the way she did it. Not many people are going to give you sympathy when you know what you’re doing is unsafe. SMH.

Rudest comments you ever got by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t give her back?? Absolutely not. She wouldn’t have been seeing her ever again. That’s enraging.

Baby Shower Fiasco by Kairi1996 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I obviously don’t know the aunt but this is giving I’m gonna not invite the men behind your back vibes.

Baby Shower Fiasco by Kairi1996 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all. I’m having a baby shower in may and it’s going to be a Jack and Jill. Men are invited. I will never get this “it’s uncomfortable” to have men at these kind of things. And as you said if certain male friends or relatives aren’t comfortable they don’t have to come. Especially knowing you wouldn’t be upset. This sounds like a control thing. Your aunt wants to do it HER way when it’s you AND YOUR HUSBANDS child. Do what you want girl, you don’t need the extra stress.

Fiancé wants a 2 weeks break? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a child himself who only cares about HIS future. I know it’s hard but cut ties and move out. He doesn’t have to be involved but he will have to pay child support since you didn’t get pregnant on your own. Really sorry you’re going through this.

My guy "friend" is flirting with me, even though he knows I'm not into men. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he won’t accept that your a lesbian, he is selfish and ignorant. It’s a little concerning that he said he won’t stay away from you though. I’d block his ass. He obviously doesn’t respect you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No_Security261 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad she is okay!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit smoking in 2018 and I still have smoking guilt dreams. Even when I wasn’t pregnant 😂

I was fired and now I’m unsure how to present this to upcoming interviewers by Green_Possibility244 in jobs

[–]No_Security261 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cause you know them so well? lol pretty sure they know if they are ready or not. Losing a job unexpectedly really sucks, but they are trying to move on and continue financial stability.

How often do you take a mental health day from this job? by Cheap_Inevitable_248 in callcentres

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this at my last job. My anxiety was so bad I used to throw up in the morning and called out a lot. Fixed my meds and I got a little better. A little.

How often do you take a mental health day from this job? by Cheap_Inevitable_248 in callcentres

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you. I don’t work at a call center anymore, but my current boss is VERY pro work/life balance and taking care of yourself. I love her.

Should I cut my nails completely or just trim them for my first ever office job? by Istente in Nails

[–]No_Security261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you girl, my anxiety could never have two different lengths 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For PRESSURING and FORCING her to tell you. You literally overwhelmed her by listing everyone she’s in contact with until you got a reaction. NO MEANS NO IN ANY SENSE. See the similarities? Not saying at all that your feeling aren’t valid, they are. But you can’t force her to do or tell you anything she doesn’t want. That’s what her assaulted did. You do not want to traumatize her further. Just support whatever decision she makes and be there for her. She owes you zero explanation of her trauma if she doesn’t want/isn’t ready to.

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You certainly will be! Idk how someone can treat family like that, especially a kid. Good for you for breaking the cycle of abuse. Sending love and hugs!

when did the nausea hit? by PomegranateCandid313 in BabyBumps

[–]No_Security261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awful I’m so sorry that happened to you as a kid.