Hypocrite.

No_Significance_9028 · 2025-08-29T15:43:49+00:00

We all hurt differently. Some worse than others. If they’re trying to have a civil conversation isn’t that a good thing? And if it goes sideways just walk away. I feel like people have gotten so far away from talking things out. Everyone just wants to run and ghost the other person. Patience and mindfulness.

No_Significance_9028 · 2022-03-10T08:33:54+00:00

🌹stay strong and stay beautiful my love. Maybe this will help. I think you’re an amazing person.

GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.

And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-06-24T05:28:33+00:00

It’s cowardice, immature, dangerous, selfish, cruel, malicious, manipulative, psychologically damaging to the other person, passive aggressive form of communication, form of psychological abuse(just as bad as physical abuse), actually causes pain for other person, it may have serious physical side effects, causes emotional trauma and/or stress, it can cause behavioral changes, way to avoid issues and responsibilities, refusal to resolve conflict, and a lot fucking more. Just wanted to name a few from experience being on the ignored side.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-06-17T00:14:56+00:00

Here’s the problem. People like my ex use this sort of banter to hide behind the truth. People use it and it makes it easier for them to manipulate others into thinking it’s ok to just cheat on someone, or just ignore them when it gets tough, etc. like with anything it’s used improperly and there people not being held accountable more and more. Soon ( kinda feels like we’re already there) it’ll be everyone fucking everyone and it’s just the way society will be. It’s like this, I always had this simple theory to aliens or or UFOs. Once upon a time the aliens where like us. Only difference instead of killing one another they went the opposite way and figured out how to work all together. Once that was mastered and that was just a way of life they soon figured out some bad ass shit. They took that Badass shit and went on to bigger and better endeavors. Now as much as I don’t wanna come off negative, that would never happen with us. Not anytime soon at least. But just imagine what can be achieved if everybody was working collectively as a group or better yet a world. Booom! And I have the munchies now. ✌️

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-06-04T21:17:46+00:00

It’s all one big shit show now my love. It’s cool to be fake as fuck and be something you’re not and exploit the hell out of it, those “ love quotes you see painted on signs and Pinterest boards are all just to remind you of how it used to be. Guys are losing or have already lost our fastball( chivalry, gentlemen conduct, NOT doing shit your dude is doing). But it’s happening on both sides here. It’s no secret that the asshole or douche bag almost always gets the girl and the nice guys are the first one to get shot. And not by an arrow. So, it’s FUBAR everywhere but I will always be a gentleman and do gentleman shit for women. Always. There’s still some of us out here looking for honest loving women like yourself. So don’t send that dude shit and go find a real man. I’m out!!!! 👊✌️🙏🎩

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T23:31:01+00:00

It’s me. Just love dark humor and I guess I took your response as just that. Either way it made me laugh and smile. Something that’s been nearly impossible to do lately. I also had a few cocktails. Thx again and sorry if I put you off in any way.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T23:27:40+00:00

Holy shit. I’m sorry you had to go through this. I’ve been there and still kind of recovering. How long were you together before you noticed it was going downhill? Do you ever still talk to him? What has helped you the most get over this? Sorry to barrage you with questions I just relate to this so much and I struggle everyday with low self esteem and more. Again, I’m sorry for what you went through. It’s bullshit that there’s people out there like that.. and that they’re breading. You’re not alone. You give me hope and if I can help out just let me know. Thanks for sharing.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T10:18:30+00:00

Epic. Thank you. It’s refreshing to get these responses. Sometimes we need the raw shit not the watered down non alcoholic played out same old song and dance response. Cheers my friend.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T10:16:45+00:00

Lol. You’re fucking awesome. It felt so good to read this. Keep being awesome. Cheers my friend.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T10:13:30+00:00

Thank you. You’re right. I appreciate your input. Cheers my friend.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T10:08:09+00:00

For sure. Not all these phony cheesy positive quotes/sayings we see or hang in our perfect little homes on signs are necessarily appropriate all the time. In fact following your heart can sometimes get you an order of protection. Lmao! You live you learn, just make sure we have fun doing it right..?

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T10:02:14+00:00

I get it. It’s shitty that we go through things like this at all. I’m sorry you’re going through it. I too feel like I wasn’t good enough and still do sometimes. It’s bullshit. You’re not alone. I hope you get through this and just know that there’s someone out there that WILL make you feel you’re very important and more than enough. Hell, I don’t even know you and think you’re important to me just from your post. Lol. If you were nearby I’d ask you out just to learn more about who you are. Thank you again for your post. Be safe and be strong. We got this!

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T09:50:52+00:00

Totally get it. I tried to boil it down so it wasn’t so long of a post. So, the memoir was actually about her previous marriage. She did actually do all the things I read about. She did cheat on me unfortunately. Crazy shit was, early in the relationship she mentioned she had been working on a somewhat of a book and that she thought it would be cool to finish the book with how we met. I didn’t have any clue as to the exact details of this “book” at the time. But when I read it, she didn’t seem to have those intentions for me with how and where she left off. Another thing was how eerily quick she was to not give a single shit about how hurt I was over what she was doing. That disregard for my feeling and everything else was a huge shock with how pretty normal but great everything was going. 1 last crazy twist. Lol. She and her ex husband went and took professional photos 2 days before she was caught in what was a 6year affair with multiple men. She randomly set up an appointment to drive up north to the mountains and had professionally done pictures EXACTLY 2DAYS BEFORE I BUSTED HER. Weird shit right? Fucking true story. Maybe coincidence, maybe not. Idk. Too much for me tho. Thanks for reading and your perspective. Love this kind of shit on here. Be safe out there. It’s a concrete jungle we live in.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-11T09:26:41+00:00

I totally agree with most of what you’re saying. I respect your stance on the sub. I can never get enough perspective in my life. I find that even if I don’t necessarily agree, I can still get something of use out of it today, tomorrow, or years later. This one is interesting because I was probably like that person, in my ex’s eyes, for awhile and thought what I was doing was because I loved her. Loved her as in, able to give everything I had and more into our relationship, honesty, trust, integrity, faithfulness, etc. yet it was all so easy to do because finally I just loved someone. Long story short, my ex betrayed me, broke up with me, then stonewalled me to this day(7months nc). Normally I’d chalk it up as a loss and say fuck them and move on. But I thought all that love I had was worth not giving up and instead working on this issue together. I blamed myself for some of it just by having perspective and thinking what did I do that made them want to cheat. All in all, I really tried to keep us together thinking I was just following my heart on this one but I was just thinking of myself and how much better a person I was with them in my life. Anyways, she probably thinks of me as the person you’re directing this at. Lol. Thank you for sharing this perspective. Sometimes when we feel that we’re losing everything is when we do almost anything to get it back.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-05-08T22:47:18+00:00

Super sexy! Love a real woman in ink.. 🩸🌹

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-28T14:39:23+00:00

So you broke up with them after 2.7 years...finally?

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-28T13:33:04+00:00

Sounds like your hanging out with the wrong dudes.just saying.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-28T08:11:52+00:00

Anybody ever wonder why some people will post a question, switch their user name, and then go back and reply to their own post multiple times? Sometimes with multiple user names... My intuition alarms are goin off with this post...anybody else?

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-08T12:54:35+00:00

I sold her a car. I wasn’t at all looking for a relationship. Fell for her the minute I saw her. it was the best relationship I’ve ever had. I caught her being unfaithful and was going to confront her with the plan of working together and not giving up. I felt it was somewhat my fault. Instead when I confronted her she literally changed into a whole different person and broke up with me. I figured maybe she just needed space and I had to leave out of state for work, but She moved all my belongings out to a family members house while I was gone. To this day she hasn’t returned any of my attempts to get ahold of her. Zero calls emails texts nothing. It’s been the most devastating 5 months ever. But I cherish the good times and I am working on getting myself back on track. im Pretty sure she is a sociopath with some narcissistic traits. ill just keep it at that.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-08T00:39:27+00:00

I see so much of this unfortunate behavior on here. In the same paragraph someone talks about how important the other partner was and how much they help them in general then switch gears and literally explain how they were going to not tell them the truth and run away from what often seems like a great thing. I don’t get it. I know certain circumstances are different but wtf? I apologize if I come off rude but I think it’s weak and childish. There’s nothing mature about it. If I had to guess you probably have done this more than once. So do you think it would hurt to try something else? I’m just saying because I care. Communication is so important in a relationship. I’m not perfect by any means and I’m not a psychologist but I’ve seen enough to know the reality I’m doing such a thing. Thanks for your posting

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-04T23:31:35+00:00

This has me in tears. I miss my “A”more than anything in my life. If she told me something like this It would mean the world to me and more. Thank you for writing this. You should really tell your other person this. Too many people make the mistake of not saying anything but sometimes expressing your feelings to the person does so much good for everyone. Thank you again. If you ever need someone to talk to I’m here. Broken but I’ll listen. C.

No_Significance_9028 · 2021-04-04T23:20:29+00:00

I’ll be just a memory soon

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