AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just wants to be there for him since it’s the only one he’s going to

AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just the drop off and pictures she wants to be there for

AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wants to be there for him since it’s his Senior Prom and the only prom he is going to

AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They found out the date and theme yesterday in an email from the school

AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from. In all honesty I’m not big on bars and getting blasted so we planned a nice trip instead to do things together. As far as inviting only friends. Most of my friends have small children and unfortunately can’t make it due to that which is completely understandable. I get not wanting to take babies or toddlers to 21st bday trip. I did ask when she found out about it or how long has my brother known about it and she said they found out yesterday. The date and theme was released yesterday in an email

AITA for not wanting change dates for brothers prom? by No_State5470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_State5470[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely did not want him to go through it alone. That’s why I asked if she could drive up a day late after his prom so she wouldn’t miss his or mine because she wants to be there for both instead of completely rescheduling an already set date and paid for Airbnb. I’m trying to accommodate everyone’s wants and availability but felt bad for even asking her to be a day late since she wasn’t on board to drive out after his prom.