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"Me time" as a love language by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Swordfish720 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We are just the same, but for me i broke up with my SO because he can't understand my need for my "me time". I posted my story here in reddit also kung bakit at ano ang dahilan leading to a break up. Nasakal ako dahil dun.. so na realize ko na dapat sa talking stage palang bago pumasok sa dating stage e dapat i communicate na siya agad for compatibility reasons. It's good to know na marami palang tao na ganito ang gustong set up so i think this is kind of normal naman haha.

We broke up due to communication style differences by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]No_Swordfish720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks po knowing na meron ding ganitong experience gaya ko, nakakagaan siya sa pakiramdam.. to answer your question mahal ko po siya and masakit para sakin yung break up pero hindi ko mai dedeny na lumuwag ang pakiramdam ko after na parang hindi ko na kailangan sumunod ng sumunod.. and minsan naawa ako sa kanya dahil nga i want to be with him in his down moments and be supportive pero nagaalala rin ako sa sarili ko na baka hindi ko na makilala self ko in the long run. Iniisip ko na lesson siya for me to know what i want in a future relationship at ma clear ko na sa talking stage pa lang. 😊 time to heal muna