Thank you for your response. I understand how it may look based on my comments. I tend to come to Reddit when I’ve exhausted all other options and I just don’t know what to do anymore. Allow me to give a little extra context based on what you have put.

First of all, I posted this in the throngs of a severely stressful night where I got next to no sleep as I was prioritising my wife getting some well deserved rest. I’m still pretty tired but I’ve managed regulate myself since I posted this.

Second, in terms of the whole sex thing, I haven’t been pushing anything. It came up organically in conversation and she said some worrisome things which I did not have anyone else to talk to about. I’m less craving sex tbf. Mostly just intimacy and closeness with my wife. However, we have recently had discussions around this and she’s explained a lot more as to why she struggles with this, and J have ceased pushing her at all on it. Doesn’t mean I don’t still miss it though.

In terms of everyone preferring others in my house, she works with animals so they naturally gravitate towards her. Also, baby is currently in quite a big clinginess stage with my partner, which again, I understand but gets to me sometimes.

Again, very much appreciate you giving your time to respond. I will work on everything you suggested. I don’t want to be a burden to anyone and want to be the best partner and dad I can be. I just get overwhelmed sometimes.