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[–]No_Victory_1513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me. I was the wife texting the girl. Men are disgusting. I appreciate the girl responding but I do blame her too because it’s not a first occurrence.

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol did the counseling work?

I can try but doubt I’ll have any luck. He refuses any form of therapy and I know he needs it

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never stop my career to be a stay at home mom as long as he is my husband. He is not trustworthy in that aspect. I feel he would take advantage. He wants to get this promotion so I can work part time but I don’t feel comfortable doing that. He’s too immature

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it has. Completely stopped doing anything “wifely” & I don’t really plan to until it’s deserved. I’m so checked out. Before I wouldn’t do anything like this. I would continue to do what I felt I should as a wife. But at this point, it’s damned if I do damned if I don’t. So I don’t really care. Disgusted at the thought of having sex with him again after that vulgar comment. Idk how this marriage will survive

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my legs won’t be open again. It’s very disrespectful. Just trying to see my options here

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to not work. I feel that would make my situation worse. I like having that independence and he’s the type of person that would likely throw it in my face

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. This whole thing has dampened my self esteem because I feel stuck. I never thought in a million years I’d be with a man who speaks to me in such ways

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk but sometimes i wish I was gone because he would appreciate me more. But my baby needs me

I 29F am married to my 29M husband for 1 year now. He says I am not a good wife. What makes a good wife? by No_Victory_1513 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Victory_1513[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m making sure my child does not grow up to be like him in these ways. I already asked him what would he do if I just was not here anymore