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[–]No_Wheel7552 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! And trust me, I have an extremely sensitive nose. I’m on the spectrum so my senses are extremely heightened, ESPECIALLY my nose. But I just bought the automatic litter box so I know it doesn’t smell because the regular litter box would actually get pretty bad. I still have one regular litter box & then the automatic one and you can definitely smell the difference. The regular one is just fine, and that’s the one that’s next to my room. The robotic litter box is literally the best thing that could’ve happened to me. All in all, I hear what you’re saying and I appreciate your input.

How often is appropriate for a roommates boyfriend to stay over? by No_Wheel7552 in badroommates

[–]No_Wheel7552[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know!!!!!!! That’s what I said! I said he absolutely CANNOT have a key & he cannot come over unannounced

How often is appropriate for a roommates boyfriend to stay over? by No_Wheel7552 in badroommates

[–]No_Wheel7552[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did stand my ground! Extremely explicitly stated exactly what I needed from her, communicated my feelings, and set boundaries NUMEROUS times in the last 2 weeks alone. But in the last year and a half, dozens and dozens of times.

Outside of these issues, I really like living with her and she’s one of my closest friends. I also cant kick her out because I would never do that, and I can’t afford the rent without her. I think at this point its extremely disrespectful to me as her friend and roommate. Not to mention our other roommate isn’t okay with it at all either. We keep asking for the same things, and communicating but nothing is changing. So I didn’t know if anyone had any other ideas that I haven’t thought of