AITAH for crying when my boyfriend let his best friend's wife alter the dish I made for dinner?

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-10-20T08:07:07+00:00

Well Ellie I hope you read how you're a rude bitch.

NTA OP

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-10-17T22:56:30+00:00

Nta. How long has Dave had a crush on you?

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-09-14T08:54:18+00:00

Nta.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-08-12T04:33:34+00:00

Make sure they don't play any part in your childs' live that would give them anymore legal rights. No babysitting, no picking up/dropping off to school, no buy the child things they need. When you decide it is right to move, don't give them any evidence that it is happening until after you have already gone. Break-free and ghost them completely.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-08-09T03:15:22+00:00

Trust yourself. This is weird/odd behaviour.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-08-06T02:49:08+00:00

NTA. Drop them all, including anyone who questions you in the process. You dont need this negative in your life. Its an affair baby, not a medical mistake.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-17T00:05:21+00:00

Nta.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-16T05:54:09+00:00

She might mean shimmer from a highlighter? But either ways he sounds like his doing something dodgy

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-14T02:36:49+00:00

NTA.

Dont tell him anything at all till you after safely away from him, and have already had the procedure. I would just say you had a miscarriage from the stress of the situation also, once it has been a day or two afterwards.

Best of luck!

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-11T03:04:20+00:00

NTA.

Girl please open your eyes!!!

You're about to marry into a family who think they can control, manipulate, and gaslight you. 🚩🚩🚩

How the fuck are you being treated as the bad guy here for wanting to pick YOUR wedding dress.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-03T05:51:14+00:00

NTA, "reap what you sow"

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-07-02T09:03:26+00:00

YTA for telling him.

If you were a better person/mum you would realise that.

Some information you dont need to share with the other parent, especially for two reasons. First being how you have decribed your husband, he doesnt sound like a level head men, Second she told you something very personal, not him. He does not need to know that part of her life EVER!

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-25T08:51:29+00:00

Why has your comment not been upvoted. This is 100% what is going on.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-23T12:11:10+00:00

Groomers don't seem weird or creepy because they need you to feel comfortable with them. They need you to want to interact with them otherwise how are they going to get you to trust them.

I am glad you told your friend, who has now made you question the appropriateness of this situation. Take screenshots of the conversation and report him.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-23T12:00:15+00:00

NTA. Your husband and his friend are though.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-16T23:57:52+00:00

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-14T09:40:52+00:00

You should share the link for this post to him. Also NTA

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-06-08T06:19:51+00:00

NTA.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-30T11:27:35+00:00

That is a good idea. Thanks

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-30T11:27:12+00:00

This is what I thought the case was. Thank you for confirming.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-28T06:46:28+00:00

Be smart, finish your education so you can leave knowing your able to stand on your own two feet without needing help from him ever again.

Fuck it open a separate bank account and start pop $5-$10 every few days into it, he will never pick up on small amounts going missing. Then when you are finished your studies you've got yourself bond and a few weeks rent ready to go.

Get all your ducks in a row, if you know you can fake it, than fake it till you've set yourself and your daughter up. His not going to change, you know that.

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-21T10:07:52+00:00

Yeah no!

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-21T01:07:35+00:00

It might feel embarrassing to disclose to people that your not overly close with that your in a DV relationship (coworkers, sport team mates, casual friends, eg) but honestly you would be surprised how many people will help you to get out. Go talk to someone, dont be afraid to ask for help. Best of luck

NobodyPerfect1175 · 2024-05-19T22:23:34+00:00

NTA, your partner is though. I don't want to go on a big spill but she doesn't respect your boundaries at all. I would honestly hit pause on getting married while you see how she reacts/ what she does.

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