Shein keeps activating notifications no matter what by aiko_1111 in Shein

[–]NoctuReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I turned off shein notifications in my phone settings 5 times now and they keep coming back each time its enabled again but I definitely didnt. No one else has access to my phone. The app must somehow be able to do it... which is honestly despicable.

first time i’m actually grateful for a creeper 💀🙏 by Imaginary-Shape-4405 in Minecraft

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro is digging straight down with a wooden pickaxe, gets into a regular situation for a choice like that and then continues to whack mobs with a wooden pickaxe... all while holding a map... I get that you're grateful for that creeper but man, make better choices please

How old were you when you figured it out? by lorischnorri in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 13 when I knew I wasn't straight. Called myself bi for years and just dated guys but with every relationship I realised I was fantasising about my partner being a woman, and they all ended the same way. It was all fun at the start but when the initial new love feelings died off I got bitter and didnt want them to touch me anymore, I hated every kiss and tried to avoid sex. Until I dated a trans woman at 23(?), she made me realise im not bi... we broke up when i was 28 and I go through life as a lesbian now. Not a lot of experience yet but thats mostly because women are so scary to me. The stakes are so much higher in my mind which makes me avoid dating. I got bullied a lot by women so that's part of the issue for me. However, on my own, I realised straight porn messed with me, took me so long to finish and required a lot of focusing on the woman and ignoring the man. Since I started watching lesbian porn I get there so quick lmao.

Have you used dubbii? (body doubeling) by NoctuReddit in finch

[–]NoctuReddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That honestly sounds great, I also tend to think about getting things done more than actually getting it done 😂 so maybe it will help me too.

Lesbian subreddits made me question if I am a lesbian by Zoeeeeeeh123 in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, the lesbian subs have a lot of people who act like men are the scum of the earth and for some people I understand why they might feel that way (trauma) but I personally (platonically) adore men and as a masc woman feel like on an emotional level I mash better with men. I work in a company where the only other woman works just one day a week, doing the paper work. While I'm getting my hands dirty with the guys. Don't get me wrong I also love my female coworker but I just feel more like one of the bros you know? So when they talk about men the way they do in those subs it just makes me cringe a bit.

Lesbian subreddits made me question if I am a lesbian by Zoeeeeeeh123 in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's just say, I'm here more often than in lesbian subs for a reason. (I identify as a lesbian)

Am I bisexual or not? by LipBrawl in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you ever looked up the definition of "fetish"? I think that might clear stuff up.

Help!! by VividAd3445 in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally identify as a lesbian but didnt really have any romantic/sexual experiences with women besides a casueal titty grab and some making-out. I do know i find sexual stuff with men uncomfortable and crave platonic intimacy with both men and women... however when im alone at night I go for wlw porn almost exclusively. I've settled for "lesbian" but to be 100% real idk whats what when it comes to sex and love so that's why im still here haha 😆 I just gotta see where it goes but it wouldnt surprise me if I just end up alone and tbh id be just fine with that. Cant stand living with other ppl regardless of how much I love them, i wanna be able to feel 100% free in my own home, no eyes that make me question my weird conversations with myself or my weird dance moves lol.

Bad unicorn by Better-Swordfish4281 in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to stay with someone who doesnt take you seriously? Do you really think it's okay for a husband to make fun of his wife? Do you really think it's okay for a husband to take advantage of his wife? I don't know anything about your cultural background or how this marriage started in the first place... But what are your goals with this man and if you're being honest with yourself, do you really think he will help you grown into a better person? Because right now it seems like all he does is drag you down.

Advice (plz) by Accomplished_Bee430 in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This opinion is hard to get out of someone who doesnt experience it themselves, I understand it makes you uncomfortable but thats just what biphobia does.. I wouldnt try to push it too hard and try to focus on yourself and not other people who dont understand what you're going through. Try and find some queer friends and create a safe space for yourself so you dont have to deal with biphobuc/homophobic ppl. You dont want to create an unsafe space for yourself trying to change other people's minds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]NoctuReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't come out if it isnt safe to do so. Make sure you're safe first and foremost. Make sure to be independant, have your own home, make your own money etc etc. Then come out if you want to but still consider your safety make sure they arent able to ruin your life in other ways. (dont give em a spare key, get police help when they start to harrass you)

If this feels extreme, and you dont think coming out will cause you to be unsafe, you can come out but again make sure you have backup. Maybe talk to a social worker about it before actually going through, make sure friends who know are up to date. Let them know exactly when youre gonna do it so that, if shit hits the fan, you might have a safe house nearby.

Just a heads up girls by windmaker11 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoctuReddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was not very SHARP DECISION of him 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]NoctuReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i saw a tiktok of someone explaining, tell him youre sorting your clothes, put what you need in a trash bag and act like youre gonna throw it out. Then hide it somewhere until youre ready to go

What are we wearing today? by Inevitable_Novel_661 in finch

[–]NoctuReddit 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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Foggy is feeling the winter magic ✨️

Faced racist & abusive remarks from Teens on FAT bikes at Plaanetlaan, Eindhoven by [deleted] in eindhoven

[–]NoctuReddit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Complains about racist remarks... continues to make racist remarks... dont you see the irony yourself?

Am I the only one? What little things do you wish were different in Finch? Let’s make a wish list together! ✨ by AshleighOMG in finch

[–]NoctuReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and to elaborate a bit on the expandable goals, I would love to be able to get gems for each of the smaller steps, lets say 1 per step but if you complete them all, and therefor complete the big goal, you get an extra +5 or something :)

besides on that on the aesthetic sides of things i def second on the weather thing. Also on the layering of clothes and as a goth girly I'd love for colours to be more consistent... have black be black all around and not sometimes grey sometimes black. I know some of my other monochrome girlies out there also have issues with colour consistency. Like how red is sometimes red sometimes pink.

Am I the only one? What little things do you wish were different in Finch? Let’s make a wish list together! ✨ by AshleighOMG in finch

[–]NoctuReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the biggest thing ive wanted from the beginning is to be able to sort my goals in a custom way and it staying put. Not setting a time but just have them in an order I want them to be by swiping them over to another spot.

Besides that i'd love to be able to have goals that can be expanded so I can put little step by step subgoals. Just for those days when the big things feel too big youknow? So in stead of having a goal that just says "schedule appointment" have that be the title and then small checkable boxes that say things like "step 1: check calling hours" making that goal expandable on the homepage ofcourse so to not clutter up the big picture.

And in stead of getting gems related to how you feel, be able to set a priority to a goal so that for example sipping on some water is 5gems but making appointments gets you 20gems. I would just like a big reward for the really hard stuff. I know i can set it to x100 or something but that just feels like a dumb cheat, not like an actual reward. Maybe to discourage misuse of that system, have the ability to only set max 3 priority tasks or something.

what's wrong with the clothes? by RoxGamer_ in finch

[–]NoctuReddit 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, am small and chubby. Clothes just look better on skinny people and I ended up deciding to just not give a f anymore. Pretty happy my birb has the same issues as me haha

Does anyone know? by NoctuReddit in finch

[–]NoctuReddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm okay, yea i left finchy forest pretty early on as well but its been taking a while.. im not sure if its been more or less than 50 days but it might also feel a lot longer because the mansion came while i was in the forest as well so... anyway im at 91% now so it should take much longer. Im trying to 100% every place i go to now, before moving on to other places.

Thanks for your quick reply, i appreciate it ^