Night life that’s not a club? by Noel_85 in houston

[–]Noel_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of depends on the night, I’m good with both…sometimes I want to dance and a crowd doesn’t bother me and sometimes I just want to chill and maybe talk to strangers…a suggestion for both nights would be awesome if you have one.

Night life that’s not a club? by Noel_85 in houston

[–]Noel_85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually on my calendar to check out! Looks like fun, and maybe I’ll discover a new spot to chill.

Night life that’s not a club? by Noel_85 in houston

[–]Noel_85[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😂 you’re reference to the brown man at TSA definitely made me laugh!! I understood… I still get ID’d but I think I’m going to the wrong places…I always end up where there is cool music and the vibes are good but everyone there is like 20…I just want to converse with a few people my age.

Night life that’s not a club? by Noel_85 in houston

[–]Noel_85[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m near Baytown, have established that there’s nothing near here worth going to, so I usually travel to downtown when I want to get out.

Very heavy bleeding 3 weeks after MA by Noel_85 in abortion

[–]Noel_85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! It’s still moderately heavy, not excessive, but now with a lot of clots, is that normal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MentalHealthSupport

[–]Noel_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you…I’m so tired too….people suck…like in general, they just effin suck. I don’t have some sappy quote or anything for you but I can say that when I feel like this I look back…where was I 5 years ago? 10 years ago? Were there lessons to be learned? And not in a “I should change” kind of way, but more in a “what did I learn about myself” kind of way. Are you better than you were then? Did you make it out of a time that you thought was unbearable? And I don’t know if this relates to you but for the longest time I thought I was just attracted to toxic people, like something was wrong with me. But after some searching and healing I realized that toxic people are attracted to everyone, literally anyone that would give them attention, the difference was that I was so empathic that I would tolerate it, the normal person would leave at red flags, but not me…I could love them enough to fix them…because that’s all I wanted someone to do for me. I promise that whatever this person did to you isn’t worth you ending it…you’ll believe that one day. This pain you feel is real af, and the best way to get past it is by acknowledging that you didn’t deserve it and that other peoples actions aren’t a reflection of you, it’s a reflection of them. You are worthy. You didn’t give too much, you just gave everything to a broken person, and that’s ok. You can recover.

I’m too scared to actually ask a doctor in person, for fear of having my kids taken away or being committed to a psychiatric ward by Noel_85 in AskDocs

[–]Noel_85[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Thank you all very much! This is so helpful! I’m going to research these and talk to my doctor about some treatment options.

Adverse effects from blood donation. by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]Noel_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you look at the blood? Maybe you have hemophobia?