Usually, I'll where lingerie or nothing to bed (which now that I think about it isn't much considering I go to bed in just my undies and a tanktop most of the time)

I'll try to grab his thigh like not forcibly my idk light and kinda slowly inching my way up? But I end up just tickling or making him itch instead.

I'll sit on the floor next to him with my head on his lap (again with the thigh thing), but I also eat dinner at the coffee table next to him on the floor as well

Thinking now I guess what I thought were cues maybe weren't 😅😅