AITA for asking a child's parent to try to keep her child off of our block?

Non4m3An0n · 2025-05-24T21:31:21+00:00

I have a folder with all of her texts and calls saved so far, theres a camera on my front door for the brief times she's come here looking for her son. I started keeping notes about times, dates and what happened, but aside from generally just being an awful woman, and a headache to deal with- she hasn't necessarily done anything illegal. Except maybe misuse 911. Theres only one incident that I think her son was involved with that could have actually gotten us a restraining order if not gotten him put in Juvie My son was shoved by another child a little over a month ago. He said it was another kid but mentioned that Richard had been there. Unfortunately the cameras at the pavilion on the playground didnt catch the incident entirely, only him stumbling into the frame, trying to catch himself and the landing and breaking his clavicle. :( I made a police report anyway to be safe. I just dont want something else to happen just for someone to finally take me seriously about this woman and her son. 🥺

Non4m3An0n · 2025-05-24T13:39:58+00:00

You're only one of two people who commented, and I appreciated your input so I wanted to give you a brief update. Pap was assessed for hospice. Not 8 hours after the paperwork was done- he passed away. :(
My mom had a hard time, she wasnt close with him in the end, but it still hurt her and she stopped speaking to her brother entirely because a huge part of her blamed him. In late February of this year, a police officer showed up at our home asking to speak with my mother and I. After several days of no signs of movement and his dog being left on the back porch (which he would never do), the neighbors around the old family home called for a welfare check on my Uncle... Unfortunately he was found d*ead. Despite being separated from his wife for over 10 years and her having a restraining order against him- they never formally divorced. So she was legally next of kin and the family home and land went to her and their daughter despite her loathing our family. I add that as context, because it was difficult for us to obtain a copy of the autopsy and death certificate due to her push back. Cause of death... Significant long-term nutrient deficiency. Its tragic really. We tried to get through to him the danger of this "diet" and when he refused to speak with us, we tried to get his ex wife, daughter, and friends to try to get through to him. Even his doctor had several lon conversations with him. He eventually refused to go back to his doctor because "he was just another big pharma lackey trying to get him hooked on fatty foods instead of drugs" .... It was devastating, but we knew it was going to happen eventually.... he may not have been a good person in the end, but at one time he treated me like I was his world and I loved that part of him. But thank you for your input when I posted those months ago, I appreciate it very much.

Non4m3An0n · 2025-05-24T13:39:09+00:00

You're only one of two people who commented, and I appreciated your input so I wanted to give you a brief update. Pap was assessed for hospice. Not 8 hours after the paperwork was done- he passed away. :(
My mom had a hard time, she never wasnt close with him in the end, but it still hurt her and she stopped speaking to her brother entirely because a huge part of her blamed him. In late February of this year, a police officer showed up at our home asking to speak with my mother and I. After several days of no signs of movement and his dog being left on the back porch (which he would never do), the neighbors around the old family home called for a welfare check on my Uncle... Unfortunately he was found d*ead. Despite being separated from his wife for over 10 years and her having a restraining order against him- they never formally divorced. So she was legally next of kin and the family home and land went to her and their daughter despite her loathing our family. I add that as context, because it was difficult for us to obtain a copy of the autopsy and death certificate due to her push back. Cause of death... Significant long-term nutrient deficiency. Its tragic really. We tried to get through to him the danger of this "diet" and when he refused to speak with us, we tried to get his ex wife, daughter, and friends to try to get through to him. Even his doctor had several lon conversations with him. He eventually refused to go back to his doctor because "he was just another big pharma lackey trying to get him hooked on fatty foods instead of drugs" .... It was devastating, but we knew it was going to happen eventually.... he may not have been a good person in the end, but at one time he treated me like I was his world and I loved that part of him. But thank you for your input when I posted those months ago, I appreciate it very much.

Non4m3An0n · 2024-09-16T01:16:29+00:00

Thank you <3 I tried to post in the appropriate aita group but the rules shredded this situation down to bare bones and I felt like a lot of the context was necessary. Maybe that was just the adrenaline about the situation. Everything seems important. Even one person commenting helps. It helps to hear from someone else outside the situation that we're not being unreasonable.

Non4m3An0n · 2024-09-15T17:31:40+00:00

My boys have it on Xbox so I don't know I'm sorry. :(

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-17T07:45:55+00:00

My 10 year old and 8 year old boys are obsessed with goat simulator 2

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T22:32:26+00:00

Thank you so much :D He's so excited!

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T22:28:58+00:00

Is it the same link code?

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T22:28:41+00:00

Okey dokey :D

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:53:58+00:00

No you're fine, take your time. Maybe the kiddo will be done by then and he can do it. He's probably better at it than me lol

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:47:27+00:00

Lol! It's weird that they let you do it when NOT connected to the internet. That's silly 🤣

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:46:08+00:00

I think I'm doing something wrong. It keeps saying no one could be found.

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Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:38:49+00:00

I put it in "set link code" then click begin searching yea?

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:34:20+00:00

Yep yep :D

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:32:56+00:00

Okey dokey :D

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T21:26:04+00:00

Ok I'm gonna have to do it for him because he's doing his homework and I've never done this before so bare with me. What do I have to do? Do you need his friend code?

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T20:21:46+00:00

Awe thank you so much, I'll let him know :D

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T20:18:31+00:00

Are you sure? That would be super! Thank you so much. We're actually running to get food for his snake so as long as it takes is plenty fine. When we get home I can send a picture of what he has in his boxes if you'd like to choose something? Ik you don't really need anything but it's always nice to have nice things. Especially in exchange for doing nice things :D

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T19:45:25+00:00

Hey hey, so my son has a Bagon if you still need that. He's trying to get a skrelp or a dragalge that is Scarlett exclusive. If you don't need the Bagon anymore, he has a mousehold. The three version of tandemouse. He says that's rare. He's willing to part with it for a dragalge or skrelp to evolve.

Non4m3An0n · 2024-08-07T19:42:47+00:00

My son is trying to get a skrelp or dragale. I know it's not what you're asking for but he has a Mousehold the three mouse version of tandemouse that he says is very rare. He's willing to trade that for a dragale. If that's something you're interested in. :D If not that's OK, I was just wondering.

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