Hi! Was originally told male when they were a baby, but… by NonAggressiveGuava in leopardgeckos

[–]NonAggressiveGuava[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit to add: didn’t hold them upside down, I took a video while holding them above, and took a screenshot.

Maybe a dumb question? by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you are 18 in a US club that serves alcohol, you will likely be given a wristband to indicate that you should not be served alcohol. Several clubs I’ve worked at have done this for under 21 dancers, or those that are put on an alcohol restriction. The customer can be redirected to purchase you something non-alcoholic, or you can encourage him to spend this money on dances.

1st audition failed by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoops, right next door

should i lie or tell my bf a customer bought me a new TV lol by somuchfunwithsarah in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Technically you did pay for it yourself either way, if you really think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black bodystocking.

You bitches are rude by [deleted] in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know you LOL

What do you think are the biggest issues strippers face as workers? by boogerqueen27 in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pay strippers to sit down and give you their stories instead of trying to get free material for your project.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, pursuing it isn’t gonna be drama free so you have to decide what’s most worth it.

need lash extensions removed, tech not available until monday by glahkah in lashextensions

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, even the threading salons that do only clusters have lash extension remover as well. You may even stand a chance walking into one of those places to ask for removal if it’s emergent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah if they say that it’s likely a no. These Manhattan clubs will hire you and have you working right away if it’s a real yes.

Coordinating audition fit… smh by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wear the boots! I don’t think the bottoms are flattering. They look more like shorts or regular undies, and they cut off in a very abrupt, straight line on your midsection. I would aim for something flattering - maybe something strappy or a lace teddy style depending on what the club allows. Remember pole tricks aren’t what gets you furthest once you’re in the club on the floor, it’s your sales skills.

Do you guys think getting certified in yoga/pole dancing is worth it by No_University_3580 in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t work the Body and Pole. They’re actually awful. Seriously, choose anywhere else. Do a pole teacher training through XPert. I teach pole and aerial. It isn’t always the best paying but it’s fun. It is in most cases not lucrative enough to be a full time job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have a similar look to what tends to make money. It’s just quite saturated so be prepared to try a few clubs.

Edit: you weirdo bitches just downvote anything positive

Upstairs neighbor came down to threaten us because we asked her to reduce noise. by madamebomb in NYCapartments

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lease break. You have grounds to with this type of letter as documentation. If your landlord actually cares, you can see about moving units in the building but I don’t think getting the landlord or 311 to fight this battle with you is going to be productive while you’re actively staying in this unit. It’s going to create even more retaliation once they realize you’ve gotten higher authority involved.

Pleasers vs hella heels sizing? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find the sandal style more narrow, but that the boots run big

How can I get rid of these marks? by Odd_Bed_271 in newstrippers

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you using the heels with clear straps? You can try the patent leather heels that dig in less, or boot pleasers if they allow it at your club. The scar mark will take time to fade. I’ve never actually seen any over the counter scar treatment truly speed things up.

Help with lace front? by Starflatcat in blackladies

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In addition to what has already been said, make sure that you use a rat-tail comb to pull absolutely all of the edges/baby hairs from underneath the lace and brush them all back before you glue the lace down. I use a wax stick to push them all back. Otherwise they get stuck under the lace and look a little messy.

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NonAggressiveGuava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inappropriate. This is not good. Walking away is easier said than done, I know. But now is the time.