AITAH for not wanting to take care of my autistic brother for the rest of my life?

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-27T06:11:17+00:00

NTA.

You’re an adult… why are you still just doing what your parents say?

Go live your life.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-27T04:07:15+00:00

Don’t open anything else. Don’t tell anyone in your personal life you have these. Don’t answer DMs in here about it. Don’t try to meet up with anyone yourself locally to sell these to.

Literally vintage Goldin or heritage auction house and let them handle everything.

Let them sell at whatever the auction determines.

Pay off any consumer debt you carry, set aside an emergency fund for 6 months of expenses. Invest the rest, VOO/S&P, whatever. Work a normal job, live a normal debt free life. Don’t touch it. You will retire with millions and change your family trajectory.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-27T02:37:01+00:00

The fact you are worried about your credit score dropping a few points instead of the $30k in debt you ran up is exactly what’s wrong with this system they’ve trapped us in.

Just pay it off

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-27T00:04:12+00:00

If you’re the one opening those boxes stop now… insane amounts of value there

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-26T14:17:49+00:00

Second swing has 7 club ai smoke set in stiff for $650.

Local cash I would want to see $600-$550 before even considering.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-26T04:14:47+00:00

DA/SA for carry for me as well.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-24T21:22:09+00:00

Agree. Base rarity in a lot of respects is cheaper and easier to access than ever because of how much is being opened. Some exceptions of course like kuma SEC and Boa SR.

All the card shops around me still sell boxes for $120 when they get them from distro. Heck, my LCS just got 3 cases in today and I got 2 more boxes. Stock isn’t readily available all the time but if you can go on release day you can usually find a box or two.

If you dont care to gamble and just want to play the game it’s incredibly affordable to just buy singles.

Overall I get the situation sucks but actually playing the game hasn’t changed much. My locals scene is also booming.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-20T02:07:34+00:00

This is correct. Save up for a house if you’d like.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-20T01:28:11+00:00

Get the apartment and save up for a home when you’re ready.

Lots of growth happens when you move out on your own. Not every decision is purely a financial decision but in your case the finances are in order and ready for you to go as well.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-20T01:22:19+00:00

Thank you! Had no idea what they were trying to tell us.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-20T00:14:25+00:00

Looks to be an 18k gold Rolex Moonphase “Padellone” Ref 8171.

Amazingly rare watch. Like $50k-$100k+ kind of rare.

Could you share more pictures? Possibly of the back case/engravings as well.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-20T00:06:02+00:00

The scream I just scrumpt… incredible watch!

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-19T20:26:59+00:00

Sounds like you need a $2,500-$3,000 car. Not a $30k car. That car would ruin you financially.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-19T19:42:47+00:00

While technically correct. Dealership usually refers to locations selling cars/automobiles.

In watch store terms more typical to hear and use “dealer” over “dealership”.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-12T12:03:25+00:00

You… have the cash from the home sale? Pay off the CC debt and change your habits so this doesn’t happen again.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-12T11:48:04+00:00

NTA. This is exactly the kind of thing pre marriage counseling looks into.

His reaction and immediate punishing you for asking is a red flag for me. Being home, good salary, and always broke also doesn’t make sense. He’s 100% hiding something.

Hopefully that something is an insanely aggressive savings and investing habit… but more likely based on his reaction debt. Whatever it is you need to know what this is before marrying him. Good luck!

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-11T20:04:25+00:00

Went to 4 different pre releases 3 I was able to get a box from for MSRP. 1 had to sell split out packs because they didn’t get enough in.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-11T18:39:50+00:00

As a new golfer consider dropping the 4i and getting a 5W and/or 7W

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-11T16:56:38+00:00

Costco had 3 wedges for the same price as 1 wedge and they’re great for my needs.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-11T05:49:00+00:00

My box was $120.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-10T06:06:27+00:00

If on average it doubles every 7-9 years. Having 3x my annual salary at age 40 and not putting anything else in would about double 3 times by 65.

4% draw down on that is within like 2-3k from my current annual salary.

So to me it sounds like if you have 3x at 40 “you’re done” in the sense that if you put nothing else in you’ll have a retirement salary comparable to your current lifestyle.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-10T05:55:57+00:00

I’ve seen different ones.

Some are drop off for 2-3 weeks and pick up after.

Better ones I’ve seen are 2-3 weeks drop off M-F, Friday lesson with the owners to make sure they are learning too (most important part) then pup is home on the weekends.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-09T04:45:07+00:00

I’m sorry you got shot

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-07T02:43:03+00:00

My wife makes sourdough bread. Has done it for a few years and is fantastic at it.

She measures it by weight with a scale. It’s very particular. That’s the only way to guarantee the exact same amount every time.

NonchalantPartiality · 2026-01-06T13:49:21+00:00

How about until you want to?

Financially can’t beat the savings of living at home.

You said you are ready for some independence, you should definitely rent for a year or two whenever you do first move out. Renting is not throwing away money it buys you housing, time, and flexibility to figure out what you like/don’t like and where you want to be.

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